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to ask if you would hire a male escort for the evening?

115 replies

WkdSM · 23/06/2011 09:14

A male friend has given up his full time job so he can share custody of his 2 DD's - still working but not earning as much as needs to be around when DD's stay with him.
He has come up with the idea of hiring himself out as a dinner companion / 'plus one' for anyone who wants a bit of company without any romatic / relationship conotations - or a corporate or family thing where they want a companion rather than go solo. Strictly nothing sexual.
So - would you ever consider hiring a chap for the evening and how much would you be prepared to pay?

OP posts:
BettySuarez · 23/06/2011 13:54

Stars you are being given a hard time on here today aren't you Smile

The fact of the matter is that there are lots of male escorts/plus 1's - call them what you will, who are in high demand for their services (whatever they may or may not be Wink).

So there are clearly 1000's of women of would use this type of service. And I simply refuse to judge them for it. Each to their own and all that Smile

CurrySpice · 23/06/2011 13:56

Stars :o you are lucky - I'm not 50 yet! Wink

But really 50 is hardly past it is it? Shock

And I'm sure you wold have men queuing up if you were on the market :o

Honestly I'm not giving Stars a hard time, we're just chatting and I respect her opinion now that I know she thinks I'm not an old slapper

BettySuarez · 23/06/2011 13:58

CurrySpice Smile

Stars82 · 23/06/2011 13:58

BettySuarez (love the name by the way)

Yes I think I am. All I have said is that if I found myself single (at whatever age) I would use one if I wanted too :) that is all.

If I found myself single and maybe not ready to be in a relationship then I would hire someone. :)

Anniegetyourgun · 23/06/2011 14:35

"...while sitting in your smug married ivory towers..."

I'm in a smug divorced ivory tower, may I judge?

To be fair, if I felt the need to have a male escort I'd prevail on one of my adult sons, so I do have options. Apart from heavy lifting, though, I'm not sure what I'd actually need them for... someone to chat to, sure, but as I said before, I know them. That's why I like to chat to them.

(Wonders whether male escorts are in fact any use at heavy lifting. Guesses that some of them might be. Realises couldn't afford one anyway. Returns to original non-hiring policy.)

AwesomePan · 23/06/2011 14:45

no need to judge.

OP merely asked if postere would hire ana escort, not theworld's view on people who feel the need to pay for sex.

Bloodymary · 23/06/2011 15:58

No. I thought that was what gay friends are for!

Noclutchjustfastforward · 05/06/2025 22:29

It seems some readers don't understand.
You only need charm, knowledge, manners, a tidy presentation , sophistication, courtesy, well dressed and the ability to hold an interesting conversation.
For business women, globe trotters, those who are affluent, intelligent, career driven women with no spare time for relationships ,this would be a perfect arrangement , just another deal, but suits the client perfectly.
Be assured,to be the respectful, perfect partner that is required can be tricky (but I love it! )

EmeraldShamrock000 · 05/06/2025 22:34

@Noclutchjustfastforward Why ? A 14 year old thread?

Noclutchjustfastforward · 05/06/2025 22:42

I'm sorry, I don't understand !
Incidentally I advertise that it is a Gentleman experience, straight not gay and no sexual favours.
No pressure on either person or expectations to perform.

Garibald · 05/06/2025 23:06

no. Just wouldn't even occur to me and it's impossible for me to imagine there could be a market for that kind of thing.

HoldmecloseTonyDanza · 05/06/2025 23:47

Noclutchjustfastforward · 05/06/2025 22:42

I'm sorry, I don't understand !
Incidentally I advertise that it is a Gentleman experience, straight not gay and no sexual favours.
No pressure on either person or expectations to perform.

@Noclutchjustfastforward what @EmeraldShamrock000 is saying is Why, oh why, oh Why (& how?!) did you resurrect a 14 year old thread??? 🤔

Astrak · 05/06/2025 23:55

Absolutely not! I'm widowed. f I want to go somewhere, and don't have a friend who wants to come along as well, I'll be quite happy to go by myself.

Noclutchjustfastforward · 06/06/2025 00:01

I'm not sure about the 14 years but maybe I overslept due to being overworked by all the busy ladies needing company occasionally ?
It really is a wonderful job for a well presented, worldly gent who can treat a woman like a princess every time she is out with him.
Why not have a go gentlemen ?

MrsSchadenfreude · 15/06/2025 17:54

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