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To be feeling slightly unhinged - can't sleep in hospital

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Hormoneoverload · 18/06/2011 04:34

Am 39 weeks of pg and in because baby nor staying put in one position. I know I need to be here, if my waters broke baby could die, but I just can't sleep. It's not super noisy, no crying babies, just snoring from three other ladies. So had three hours first night, a couple of hours last night and very tearful in the early hours. I am worried it'll affect my decision making faculties and make me irrational and mire worried than I already am. Think there's actually little I couldn't cope with-even though missing home other dc, trying to decide to have section or not if I could just sleep. But just as I'm dropping off, a midwife will come in to do something or there's other noise. Anyone been here? I'm frustratingly well really and all my friend's think I'm ending my pregnancy annoyingly rested! and ear plugs not working! Sorry to moan!

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LDNmummy · 19/06/2011 22:31

Just to say I hope you feel better soon. Must be very frustrating but at least you are in a good place for you and your LO Smile

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Hormoneoverload · 20/06/2011 17:24

Well, one night in five star accommodation and baby's turned Grin. Not engaged , but head in pelvis confirmed by scan! Fingers crossed will stay there then I'll be able to go home. It is more likely to stay put than not, but am trying to take nothing for granted. Still SmileSmile. Have really appreciated posts.

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Hormoneoverload · 20/06/2011 17:26

Giraffescan'tzumba meant to wish you well for your op. Wish you good pain relief and good sleep.

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Clytaemnestra · 20/06/2011 17:37

Congratulations! Really glad it's wriggled round - it's definitely liking the luxury. :)

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LoveBeingAbleToNamechange · 20/06/2011 17:54

Funny what a good nights sleep can do Grin

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giraffesCantZumba · 21/06/2011 09:05

how you doin? Was thinking of you last night in my hosp bed when i couldnt sleep! That was cos of pain really.

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Hormoneoverload · 21/06/2011 10:51

Giraffes-sorry you're in pain. Have done that kind of hospital admission too and it's no fun. Good here-baby's well in to the pelvis head down, in fact the word engaged was used today. Waiting for doc to sign papers so I can go home. A real turnaround! Just wondering if I'm going to have baby-number three engaged sounds suspiciously imminent! Hope you get better night tonight. Do you know how long you're in for?

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valiumredhead · 21/06/2011 11:06

Hospitals are awful and SO noisy! I spent 3 weeks in hospital before having ds and I was climbing the walls - I eventually lost it big time after finally getting to sleep only to be woken by a cleaner asking me who sent me flowers, I mean WTF?????? I was incandescent Blush

Anyway - cat naps are the way to go and try not to worry about sleeping as you would at home.

I recently spent 2 weeks on a ward after an accident and it was exactly the same - I came home exhausted!

Look forward to your own bed! :) wishing you a quick and painfree as possible delivery!

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kmr5025 · 21/06/2011 11:25

Sorry - very late to the thread and glad you have had a better night in a side room. I was admitted to hospital for observation on a weekly basis following my midwife appt every friday from about 33 weeks. Every week it was a different story of crying babies (only to be expected), chatting new mothers (again only to be expected but did include those making and receiving mobile calls at 2 am, 3 am, 4 am etc etc) and snoring not least of which was me as by late pregnancy I had developed my own man sized snore! I slept so badly as each time I dropped off I started to panic that I was snoring and woke myself up. It was such a relief to get home!

I was finally admitted for induction at about 38 weeks as bp went sky high - this took 4 days (no sleep there either) and EMCS and then had problems with feeding so was in for a further 4 days. Still not more than 1 hour sleep at a time because of the same issues plus new ones of being post-op with a new and hungry baby! By my last night in hospital I was a gibbering, sobbing wreck from lack of sleep and stood there in tears in the middle of the ward begging the midwife to let me go home as I felt I'd be better there. The lovely ladies in the bay with me (who until that point had barely seen me as I'd been pretty much been hiding behind my curtains!) each gave me a hug and then arranged with the midwives to have their visiting hours in one of the side rooms (babies weren't allowed out of the bays without permission) so that I could sleep without being disturbed by their visitors. Ladies, if you're out there and reading this - thank you again so much, you saved my sanity!

Sorry for the hijack but I totally empathise with you. Good luck with the baby!

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Hormoneoverload · 21/06/2011 12:35

Not at all, good to have new perspectives. Hopefully this thread might be discovered by someone else suffering similar issues - I don't think people would necessarily understand til they'd been there. People on the outside are understandably a bit Envy about the rest I've had from household and child related things in the last few days. And that is def true-I was so breathless before and just wanting to sit down all the time. The cat nap thing is so true-and it raises an issue about visiting times. I have been glad for restrictive hours here. I found when I had an op that just as I was dropping off to have a snooze in the day, a visitor would arrive. Really lovely to have company, don't get me wrong but when you get visits from docs, nurses, etc etc, and sleep a problem at night you need to take it when you can. That's actually been one of the good things about side room-I only get my own interruptions. Oh - and don't have to worry about my snoring disturbing others or raising bed being noisy. I feel that I've only seen the half of sleep deprivation in hospital this time- been very quiet so hence the side room and I'm only a relatively short term inmate. Also, I haven't needed bp or other obs so haven't been disturbed during the times I've actually been asleep. So huge sympathy for those who have been through or are going through this.

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giraffesCantZumba · 21/06/2011 13:54

am now in a room of 4 but am only one in it!

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Hormoneoverload · 21/06/2011 14:09

Long may that last. Hope you can get some sleep or at very least the privacy to be yourself

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RevoltingPeasant · 21/06/2011 14:13

Aw giraffes you have my sympathies :) Am going in for renal surgery myself - first consultant I saw said 4-5 days' recovery in hospital IF everything goes normally - the second one, who will be doing the op, said 'Oh, I normally only have people in overnight, 2 at most'... Could've hugged him!!

How long are you in purgatory hospital for?

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giraffesCantZumba · 21/06/2011 18:22

my lovely driving instrutor is coming to see me tonight! So that has cheered me up. And had tramadol yay. Gosh so many of us in hosp! Xwas meant to be out this morning but collapsed and been having blood clots so not sure

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giraffesCantZumba · 21/06/2011 18:26

i feel a bit drunk ha ha i love mumsnet lol

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Hormoneoverload · 21/06/2011 21:18

Drugs are def the way to go! It was when they stopped my morphine after my previous surgery that I started to feel really sad! Glad you've got visitors.

Just to finish my journey with all this, I was discharged this afternoon. Lovely to be home-blitzed the kitchen and never been so glad to have a dish cloth in my hand Grin. Now stay put baby-until it comes put obviously!

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giraffesCantZumba · 21/06/2011 22:04

oh thats good you home!

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Hormoneoverload · 04/07/2011 22:39

And we have a baby girl! Very quick and good labour, in hospital, with spectacular breaking of waters that I wanted nowhere near any of my floors, and would have needed to transfer anyway. But lovely, and home now. Only one night in, slightly mad couple opposite, but managed because had baby to distract me. Thanks!

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Hormoneoverload · 04/07/2011 22:39

How are you giraffes?

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RollingInTheAisles · 04/07/2011 23:02

Congratulations!

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