to live happily without sex?

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In an extremely happy long-term relationship, very amicable, DP is fantastic partner and father in every way, we have excellent communication etc, but it just happens there's not much going on in the bedroom - in fact, nothing for a while now. This used to bother me a little but now I think we're just both out of the habit and don't really miss it. I'm OK with this although I do worry a little when I think that it's not the same for other people.

Should I just enjoy my relationship as it is, or should I be concerned that we're not the same as some other people?

I guess I'm looking for some reassurance here as I'm happy as I am until I start comparing with others.

I don't think that anyone could accuse me of 'stealth' . I did have a chuckle at the med men reference though. Fingers (but not legs) crossed you can get a summer holiday booked ASAP!

yep izzy an Italian on top of everything else, you can see the depth of my problem...

Sadly I stomped off to the loo alone on this occasion, giving him the finger in the process. Sigh.

We are talking and I've apologised for being a badtempered bitch for my general impatience etc but we can both see something needs to really change here, woman/man cannot live by sex alone.

I will let you know when we're reunited. Maybe when the idiot gets a watch and stops thinking that the rules of time don't apply to him because he is an artist.... But yes a brief coma will probably result.

LOL hth yes a nice holiday would hit the, er, correct spot....

YANBU, we are the same I feel bad but I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO tired and we are both out of the habit. I think it will come back when DS1-2 start sleeping a bit better

I'm reassured to hear that I'm not alone. I suspected others would be in a similar situation.

Thanks!