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Original poster

to be devastated my DP has admitted he likes 'small, pointly boobs'?

64 replies

lightsandshapes · 04/06/2011 14:16

I have large 34 GG breasts (and getting bigger - 5 months pregnant).

I feel unappreciated and almost feel like having an affair with someone who appreciates my body. I have tried to set up a 'date' night too, but so far he has refused everything I've suggested. Just feel like giving up on this relationship

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swingingcat · 04/06/2011 17:56

My DH of many, many years likes to look at huge tits, mine are small and saggy.

Our relationship isn't based on tits!

opalinski · 04/06/2011 17:57

ew to pointy boobs

MarianneM · 04/06/2011 18:03

How dare he?

What a twat.

Tell him you prefer men with manners and a brain but you'll make do with him.

tethersend · 04/06/2011 18:06

Buy him a poster of Jedward.

MumblingRagDoll · 04/06/2011 18:09

It sounds like he wasn't thinking....I once asked DH if he thought I'd got fat andd he said...YES! Angry trouble was...it was true. Your DP may like small ointy boobs but he is with you which means his like of them is not so important that it colours his desire for you!
If he is being crap in other ways,thenmaybe it is time to have a night out tgethe to talk?

foxy76 · 04/06/2011 18:10

tethersend Grin

TeamLemon · 04/06/2011 18:11
Original poster
lightsandshapes · 04/06/2011 18:12

thanks you these answers are cheering me up Smile. Why Jedward MarianneM?? Mumbling the night out sounds like a good suggestion to me! I will try and organise something!!!

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mousymouse · 04/06/2011 18:16

I like a sixpack and an athletic body in a man. have to keep dreaming.
relationships are not about the size/shape of bodyparts. at least is shouldn't be.

juneau · 04/06/2011 18:18

I feel for you as my DH prefers small boobs too and mine are currently a 34G (I have a 3-week-old baby and am BFing - normally they're a 34DD). But unless he's normally an insensitive twat I think you might be over-reacting slightly, which is easy to do when you're pregnant and feeling rather sensitive about the changes to your body and any criticism feels so much worse. I'd tell him how his comment made you feel, but try not to over-dramatise things unless you really want to make this a huge issue.

BumWiper · 04/06/2011 18:45

For what its worth I'm sure my DH prefers breasts located in the chest area,not hanging around my knicker elastic.But hey a boob is a boob to him.Unless I'm feeding and then its baby's lunch.

Original poster
lightsandshapes · 04/06/2011 18:46

Thank you Juneau think I was feeling especially sensitive because I wanted to feel their 'erotic' appeal before they become baby feeding things. They are really sensitive - but he never touches them... but will remember the amazing job they are about to perform Smile

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Original poster
lightsandshapes · 04/06/2011 18:47

ps. 34 Gs UNITE!

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TheCrackFox · 04/06/2011 18:57

Tell him you prefer cocks longer and thicker.

Changing2011 · 04/06/2011 19:05

Hi there my dp recently told me my boobs "could be bigger". He prefers them when I'm pregnant! I think men just aren't as sensitive about issues like this...... Except when it comes to their cocks! It's a terrible time for feeling insecure about your body when you're pregnant so you have my sympathies. My dp completely went off me after I had dd it was awful. It did come back after a while but I think he saw my body as "belonging" to the baby in a way. Hard for me because I was dead obsessed with sex when pregnant!

valiumbandwitch · 04/06/2011 19:08

What a stupid comment. I think you should confess that you like sensitive thoughtful handsome men.

valiumbandwitch · 04/06/2011 19:10

@tethersend, did you hear? there is big trouble in the jedward camp as one of the jedwards has a girlfriend. the other one is pouting for europe.

aliceliddell · 04/06/2011 19:14

He probably likes large wads of £50 notes, too. Does this put you under an obligation to provide him with them?

DirtyMartini · 04/06/2011 19:15

OP: because Jedward = a couple of small pointy tits Grin

He's been rude and should apologise. I hope he does.

bemybebe · 04/06/2011 19:16

So what? My dh likes a lot of female physical attributes I do not have (long legs and large breasts to name a couple), yet he loves me as a whole and I know that...

I think your problem is not that your dh loves 'small, pointly boobs', but that he makes you sad... Sad

moonbeam32 · 04/06/2011 19:21

I think the thing is OP, it proves he is with you for you. Not how you look or your boobs or anything else. He may prefer small pointy boobs. BUT he prefers you more than anything :)

He just sounds like he was a little tactless :)

I'm sure my hubby would prefer a size 10 with pert boobs and pouty lips. But she wouldn't be me and i know he loves me
xx

Original poster
lightsandshapes · 04/06/2011 19:26

hahahha re jedward!

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justpaddling · 04/06/2011 19:28

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

jugglingwiththreeshoes · 04/06/2011 19:44

My DH was so lovely to me when I was expecting our DC's.
I think that's as it should be, and am sad to hear that it is common for men to treat their partners less well during pregnancy. I hope your DP pulls his socks up, OP. Having a baby is such an amazing thing to be doing together !

cannydoit · 04/06/2011 19:46

dont know what watching porn would have to do with it since most breasts in porn are massive and fake.

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