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Why do people enjoy picking others up on their spelling or grammar

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:29

i have noticed this a LOT here, and i am fairly new. Is there some kind of badge that is awarded if you spell every word correctly and use every term in the correct way. Some people seem to respond to a particular thread just to correct the OP with their spelling or punctuation or grammar. WHY? Not everyone has a masters in english. Not everyone is awesome with spelling or grammar. Is it some way of making yourself look better than the next person?

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madhattershouse · 31/05/2011 01:30

I wouldn't worry about them TBH. Tell them to go to pedants corner if they can't stand mistakes Grin

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:32

I guess, it just annoys me a lot. I have always struggled with grammar and punctuation but there is always somebody who will jump in, with a silly patronising emoticon, and correct the OP/next person, although there is some kind of trophy at the end of the thread for the person who spelt the best.

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BitOfFun · 31/05/2011 01:35

It's just a quirk of mumsnet. We like to keep out the riff-raff

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ThisIsANiceCage · 31/05/2011 01:38

Heh heh, you need to meet our mistress of misspelling, ChaosTrulyReigns. Angels direct her hands, I tell you. [wunk]

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:38

In fairness I understand the lack of tolerance for "txt spk" as I hate it but sometimes it seems that a lack of an apostrophe is grounds for patronising emoticons. Not everybody can speak or read Latin or twenty other languages, some people are very educated and intelligent but perhaps struggle with other aspects of education. We are all sooooo nice for the sake of political correctness but jump on the next woman who may not have a university level of english reading/writing.

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:40

Well i struggle with grammar and spelling, i always have, im not stupid or uneducated but when i see people posting on a thread for the sake of embarassing the OP with their spelling or grammar it makes me uncomfortable and embarassed.

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 31/05/2011 01:41

Misspell all you like, use whatever grammar floats your boat. I have far more issues with 'content'.

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:44

Agreed but i often feel "inferior" when people choose to quote latin phrases. The most latin i ever knew was the printed lettering on my sofa.

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:45

And I don't think i do misspell. But gawd it is an effort to start ever sentence with a capital. who cares..

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doley · 31/05/2011 01:45

There is no excuse for lack of punctuation though .

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:47

What if you struggle with punctuation and sit at your computer thinking oh crap where am i sposed to punctuate here and if i don't get it right i will be spoken to in latin and made to feel stupid.

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doley · 31/05/2011 01:51

I am talking basics here ...

a full stop or comma :)

I can not believe anyone can struggle with that ?

I don't care about spellings so much ...but ,I like to be understood so I try Wink to make sure I make things easy to read .

I wouldn't start quoting any latin ,I don't know any Grin

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:53

Am perhaps a bit OTT tonight. Attention seeking maybe Smile

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TakeMeDrunkImHome · 31/05/2011 01:54

I had a sofa that had latin phrases printed all over it. Lupus in fabula became a ditty we would sing after consuming too much vino Smile apparently it means in conversation with the wolf

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prism · 31/05/2011 01:56

Errare humanum est, IMHO.

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doley · 31/05/2011 01:57

Well ,I don't think you have anything to worry about ,your posts are just fine :)

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SockShitter · 31/05/2011 02:25

Why do people enjoy picking others up on their spelling or grammar

Because picking apart someone's content is a helluva lot more difficult, especially when you know the other person is right/has a very good point!

Ironically I notice it is the posters who aren't clever enough to argue their point but still want to be seen as the clever one. hark at me, I have access to a dictionary! Can't abide txt spk though

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Morloth · 31/05/2011 03:40

YABU, if people didn't pick other people up on their grammar/spelling then we wouldn't have those delicious moments when the person doing the correcting fucks it up themselves and we can all point and laugh.

It is the simple things in life...

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DontCallMePeanut · 31/05/2011 05:17

Agree with Morloth. I do wonder at times whether Mumsnet has considered enforcing a rule that means you have a degree in English before registering... Grin

Text speak does annoy me, though. And I can just about forgive the wrong use of "there", "their" and "they're" or "your" and "you're". But I had a message on facebook a few weeks back asking "wood you like to go out some time..." He made the same mistake four times... Directing to a dictionary in those cases is acceptable Wink

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Planetofthegrapes · 31/05/2011 05:37

Nolite te bastardes carborundorum!

I don't give a crap moi.

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DontCallMePeanut · 31/05/2011 05:42

Please, planetofthegrapes. It's "I don't give a crap, moi" Grin

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DontCallMePeanut · 31/05/2011 05:43

With a full stop at the end, obviously.

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ILoveThinLizzy · 31/05/2011 05:44

Grr!!!! Angry

My 2 pet hates - using "your" instead of "you're" and "of" instead of "have"

It grates but I grit my teeth and move / read on.

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HengshanRoad · 31/05/2011 05:50

Good spelling and grammar are signs of good communication, and communication is what fora are all about.

On a maths forum, you wouldn't get people writing algorithms wrong, would you?

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 31/05/2011 06:37

YABU... If the message itself is friendly and good-natured, few correct the English. If the poster is making some ignorant comment (and it's revealing how often poor grammar and offensive remarks go together) then they'll get picked up on both.

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