to be concerned when strangers touch my baby?

[workinggally]

when he's in the pram out and about they come up and admire him (which is ok). But often they touch his feet and hands as well and even the face!! Should I stop them? Someone wanted to pick him up!

Whatever you do, don't go on holiday to Italy.

I think that 'baby squishers' find hands and feet irresistable particularly. I wouldn't mind anyone having a little squeeze of my baby's hands/feet/legs. Touching the face is something I'd probably not mind if it was someone I knew but I'd worry if I saw beringed fingers with long nails going towards my child's face. Puttng fingers in baby's mouth is an absolute no-no.

I think that if Mums have a problem with people touching their child, they'll either have to keep away from potential 'squishers'; either that or have a scripted refusal ready... something polite - and kind.

I understand your concern..but what you do is make sure your babys hands and feet are covered ...and just relax and take it on board they think your baby is adorable.. I try not to touch young babies hands or faces or pick them up ..but even I find it hard to resist so I get permission first!!..maybe a swift wipe with a wipe afterwards will help..

Well said Lying, couldnt have put it better

lots of the responses on here are rather flippant cos this is one of many threads that workinggally has started that have an over-anxious PFB germphobic ring about them, and the regulars are just getting a bit tired of the same theme.

DS got admired, stroked and cooed over. I felt a bit funny when he was teenytiny but just wiped his hands etc with a wipe discreetly afterwards. By about month 3/4 i'd have handed him over to anyone for 2 minutes peace!!

There are numerous studies showing that children who are exposed to bacteria and germs when young have brilliant immune systems as they get older. If they don't get ill now, they will be one of those people who are always taking sick days at work and school.

PS: Most doctors will advise against overzealous use of anti-bacterial sprays and gels. But if the person is actively very ill with flu or something, they shouldn't touch a baby.

You could train your baby to scowl fiercely. I get a lot of old ladies bending over DD's pram ready to gush but they tend to back away and say "Oooh, she looks a bit fierce".

It's as I have said from the start, Jacanne, leave it to the baby!