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AIBU?

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to be annoyed about this?

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CallMeBubblesEverybodyDoes · 24/05/2011 12:34

My friend works on a Tuesday and a Friday. She has a 9 month old baby boy and 2 older children that are at school. Yesterday she phoned me and asked me if I would look after her baby today as her childminder phoned yesterday and is ill. I agreed as the family members she would normally ask are all busy, and her husband works Monday-Friday.

She dropped her son off at 8am this morning (picking him up at 5). It turns out that her husband has a day of annual leave today and is going to have a "chill out" morning, then has a doctors appointment at 1.30pm, that is why they needed me to have their son today.

I am quite annoyed really; if he is on annual leave surely he should have looked after their DC today. They live very locally so he could easily have dropped the baby here for his doctors appointment. I don't see why I should have to look after a baby (in addition to my 1 year old) from 8-5 just so he can have a day relaxing. I mean, we'd all like a childfree day to relax wouldn't we?

Their DS is very cute but is very demanding and I've literally had to hold him from the minute they arrived or he screams, so not easy babysitting by any means.

AIBU?

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fedupofnamechanging · 25/05/2011 09:58

Don't ever babysit for them again under any circumstances. If this is going to annoy you until you get it off your chest then I think you should tell your friend that you are upset and why.

KatieWatie · 25/05/2011 10:04

Good lord, their behaviour beggars belief.

In response to the "why is my son crying?" I think I'd have been tempted to respond "probably because he knows his dad is lazing at home whilst he's been dumped on the nearest mug who'll have him"

I hope in future you'll flatly refuse, and I agree you should definitely have it out with your friend. There could be more to it, from her point of view, but she still should've told you the facts at the start. Either way she needs to know how you're feeling about the way they've treated you.

QuackQuackSqueak · 25/05/2011 12:50

"probably because he knows his dad is lazing at home whilst he's been dumped on the nearest mug who'll have him"

That would have been great! The sort of thing I'd of thought of a couple of days later!

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