19 month DD would typically get up around half 7, have about an hour nap after lunch around 1pm, then go down at half 7pm, settle straight away and sleep through the night.
Sometime recently she stopped going down "nicely" at 7:30pm and started various shenanigans including taking off her pj trousers, standing there and crying/complaining loudly and generally raising merry hell till about half 8, 9pm on a really bad night.
She would then want to sleep till 9am or well after 8am which was bad for school run - it was suddenly all messed up.
My son had dropped daytime naps by this age - I remember him doing it after my 1st trimester of pregnancy with DD and I had to stop having a nap myself - and had been half expecting her to just stop having one at some point but instead her night time sleep is getting all messed up.
This morning she slept till about 8:15am after not settling last night till nearly 9 and DH and I agreed that we would keep her up instead of let her have a nap. We did. We put her in bed at 7:30pm. She slept.
Am I unreasonable?
I suppose I'm asking because there may be times where she is visibly tired and flagging or falls asleep in the car on the school run (I propose that I would just wake her when we arrive either there or home) so really the question is, is that so bad if it means she's not distressed at night, or is daytime tiredness worse than nighttime distress...
Did anyone else do this? Or are you of the "never wake a sleeping baby" or baby-led to the extent that if she's not tired at half 7 then keep her up...let her sleep in in the morning school of thought?
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TattyDevine · 22/05/2011 20:35
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