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to have got the massive arse with this woman?

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TandB · 16/05/2011 19:33

I left my wallet at home today and only realised when I got to nursery so one of the staff lent me £20. I went into the bank on my way back from work to get £20 out to pay her back - I had my passport and chequebook in my bag.

I have done this a couple of times before and the local bank has never made a fuss - the first time it happened I had no ID at all and they made me go through a lengthy security process but were happy to give me cash with a signature. The second time I had a cheque book and driving licence and they just did the basic security checks. The cashier said that if you have any Barclays stuff (cheque book/bank statement etc) and ID they just treat it as a standard transaction.

So today I went in and explained I needed £20 as I had forgotten my wallet and the woman fixed me with a steely gaze and demanded to know how far away I lived. I said that I lived about 100 miles away but my wallet was about 9 miles away at which point she did a lot of pointed sighing and head-shaking and she said "We usually send people home to get their card". So I pointed out that if going home to collect my wallet was an option that is what I would have done - I was only here because that wasn't an option.

She then said "well you are supposed to have your bank card on you at all times". I did refrain from asking which law said this, and just said that I generally do have my bankcard but, for obvious reasons, those reasons being that I had FORGOTTEN it, I was without it today.

At this point she revisited the "sending people home to get it" thing. By this time I was starting to get the arse so I asked her whether it was no longer Barclays policy to provide access to an account with ID and a cheque book. She wouldn't answer but said yet again "well you are supposed to carry your card".

At this point I said "Look. This has happened before and none of your colleagues have taken issue with it. If there has been some sort of policy change please tell me and I will stop bothering you and ask to see someone higher up with the authority to authorise a withdrawal of £20".

Much glaring and huffing and then she shouted in the vague direction of her colleagues "This lady wants to take out £20 without her card". Her colleagues all looked at her a bit blankly in a "and what do you want me to do about it" kind of way, at which point she huffed and puffed some more and said I would have to answer a series of written security questions. This was clearly just her trying to be awkward so I said I wasn't writing down my security details - I would answer verbally as usual. I then got a lengthy spiel about why she personally thought written questions were better, although she wouldn't answer my question about whether this was a new policy.

Eventually I said "I just need to withdraw £20. Can we please do this in the normal way, with the normal verbal security questions, or do I need to speak to your manager?"

Finally she caved in, asked about 10 security questions, including some incredibly complicated ones about set dates that things happen on my account and gave me my £20 with a massive sulky face and a slam of her little plastic flap.

AIBU to think that some people just relish the opportunity to make people's lives difficult? I have no problem with people following the rules of their jobs, but I do object to people inventing new rules. And I certainly object to being told I should be "sent home" to get my wallet, like a naughty child who has deliberately not brought her PE kit to school!

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SarahStratton · 17/05/2011 16:28

KFP did you pay her another visit today? Grin

amothersplaceisinthewrong · 17/05/2011 16:33

Barclays counter staff are THE WORST I have ever come accross. Super dim and jobsworthy, not to mention rude.

Gingefringe · 17/05/2011 16:36

'Computer Says No!!'

What an awkward cow - report her to her superiors.

kerala · 17/05/2011 16:46

Does sound annoying but I rather wish the woman that pinched my purse out of my bag whilst I was dealing with a newborn and managed to withdraw £800 from my account over the counter had received similar treatment Hmm

catsmother · 17/05/2011 17:24

Was her name Carol Beer ??

StayingDavidTennantsGirl · 17/05/2011 17:43

Kungfupannda rocks!

ThisIsANiceCage · 17/05/2011 17:58

Ooh I had this a few years ago trying to oh, pay a countersigned cheque into my account I think (owner of cheque standing beside me and happy to countersign in cashier's presence).

Cashier: Hassle hassle why not why blah blah.
Me: So is this not actually permitted, then, because it certainly used to be.
Cashier: Oh it is permitted. We just try to discourage it.

HerHissyness · 17/05/2011 18:14

My new motto in dealing with fuckwits, general twattishness and out an out wankerisms is:

'What would Kungfupannda do'

TandB · 17/05/2011 18:41

[tries to look modest and fails]

Sarahstratton - I walked past and considered going in and just walking up to her counter, slamming her plastic flap and wandering out again. But I chickened out!

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TandB · 17/05/2011 18:41

Thisisanicecage - that is brilliant!

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SarahStratton · 17/05/2011 18:50

Always tomorrow KFP Grin

HarrietJones · 17/05/2011 20:23

KFP do you want to deal with my blacklist? I'm running out of steam but I think you'd be up for kicking arse dealing with them

AppleyEverAfter · 17/05/2011 20:41

YANBU! I changed my bank a few years ago after handing over a deposit of £130 in cash to the RBS cashier, who put the money straight into the PLASTIC FLAP and said: '£120 then?' I said no, I had given her £130. She then proceeded to stare at me as if I was some kind of idiot/thief and told me it was definitely £120. I tried to stand my ground but she said she'd have to count the cash in her stupid flap that night to see if she was £10 over. £10!! Like I'd even bother to try and con the bank out of £10.

The next morning, after hearing nothing, I rang the manager who checked the tills and said that yes indeed, they were £10 over and she would credit my account. I should have played merry hell and made her have a word with the cashier but I just opened another account. I must do better next time.

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