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to have got the massive arse with this woman?

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TandB · 16/05/2011 19:33

I left my wallet at home today and only realised when I got to nursery so one of the staff lent me £20. I went into the bank on my way back from work to get £20 out to pay her back - I had my passport and chequebook in my bag.

I have done this a couple of times before and the local bank has never made a fuss - the first time it happened I had no ID at all and they made me go through a lengthy security process but were happy to give me cash with a signature. The second time I had a cheque book and driving licence and they just did the basic security checks. The cashier said that if you have any Barclays stuff (cheque book/bank statement etc) and ID they just treat it as a standard transaction.

So today I went in and explained I needed £20 as I had forgotten my wallet and the woman fixed me with a steely gaze and demanded to know how far away I lived. I said that I lived about 100 miles away but my wallet was about 9 miles away at which point she did a lot of pointed sighing and head-shaking and she said "We usually send people home to get their card". So I pointed out that if going home to collect my wallet was an option that is what I would have done - I was only here because that wasn't an option.

She then said "well you are supposed to have your bank card on you at all times". I did refrain from asking which law said this, and just said that I generally do have my bankcard but, for obvious reasons, those reasons being that I had FORGOTTEN it, I was without it today.

At this point she revisited the "sending people home to get it" thing. By this time I was starting to get the arse so I asked her whether it was no longer Barclays policy to provide access to an account with ID and a cheque book. She wouldn't answer but said yet again "well you are supposed to carry your card".

At this point I said "Look. This has happened before and none of your colleagues have taken issue with it. If there has been some sort of policy change please tell me and I will stop bothering you and ask to see someone higher up with the authority to authorise a withdrawal of £20".

Much glaring and huffing and then she shouted in the vague direction of her colleagues "This lady wants to take out £20 without her card". Her colleagues all looked at her a bit blankly in a "and what do you want me to do about it" kind of way, at which point she huffed and puffed some more and said I would have to answer a series of written security questions. This was clearly just her trying to be awkward so I said I wasn't writing down my security details - I would answer verbally as usual. I then got a lengthy spiel about why she personally thought written questions were better, although she wouldn't answer my question about whether this was a new policy.

Eventually I said "I just need to withdraw £20. Can we please do this in the normal way, with the normal verbal security questions, or do I need to speak to your manager?"

Finally she caved in, asked about 10 security questions, including some incredibly complicated ones about set dates that things happen on my account and gave me my £20 with a massive sulky face and a slam of her little plastic flap.

AIBU to think that some people just relish the opportunity to make people's lives difficult? I have no problem with people following the rules of their jobs, but I do object to people inventing new rules. And I certainly object to being told I should be "sent home" to get my wallet, like a naughty child who has deliberately not brought her PE kit to school!

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SauvignonBlanche · 16/05/2011 19:53

YANBU - are you sure it wasn't somebody you have made reverse recently? Grin

Needanewname · 16/05/2011 19:56

Panda I don;t realise it was you (just read SB comments!!!) wow look at you all assertive!!

Arion · 16/05/2011 19:58

Envy SB made the joke I was going to!

jordannarikki · 16/05/2011 20:04

What a nobber she was, YANBU.

I was with HSBC, and I had an issue on my account which, when I phoned the call centre I was told to go into the local branch to resolve.

When I went in I got a HUGE amount of attitude from the member of staff who did lots of hair flicking and telling me that she could not help me in ANY WAY. Then just sat there giving me an "off you fuck then" look.

I was 38 weeks pregnant at the time and seriously pissed off at having had to waddle in there for a load of cheek. I phoned them later and asked the name of the manager of the branch.

The deputy manager phoned me right back, apologised profusely, found out who it was who had treated me so badly and said she would bollock her (I do believe her, she didn't sound happy at all). She also resolved the issue for me which the lazy bint I first spoke to hadn't bothered to do.

I've worked in customer service myself and had my fair share of uppity customers but there was no excuse for her behaviour.

To summarise, sometimes it's worth reporting!

dawntigga · 16/05/2011 20:04

Leaving aside the rest of the rubbish she did - the ID&V questions (not written down ffs!) are reasonable. The rest isn't.

BTW the definition of a complaint at Barclays is:

Any expression of dissatisfaction whether justified or not.

IfYouFeelStronglyEnoughAboutItRaiseAComplaintTiggaxx

PomBearEnvy · 16/05/2011 20:04

She sounds like a jobs worth, I'd do it again tomorrow just to piss her off but then I am childish and immature

'I was far too reasonable and couldn't stick all the being told what to do when we got taken over and had to leave

I am not allowed in the bank now. I get the rage Hmm'

BalloonSlayer · 16/05/2011 20:06

We were recently in Australia and I had travellers' cheques - why is another story.

I cashed a load with no problems whatsoever in a local branch of a major Australian bank.

A week or so later I went to a branch of the same bank a 10 minute drive away. The teller was incredulous that I should be trying to do something as audaciously outrageous as cash some travellers' cheques. How very dare I? The cheek! They can't just hand over money in exchange for travellers cheques with a passport to prove who I was, OH no, despite that being the whole bloody point of travellers' cheques. I was treated as if I was trying to rob the vaults themselves using the teller's mother as a human shield.

I said weakly, several times, "Erm the branch in xx didn't have any problems doing this" but was countered by the teeth sucking "thhhhhhh . . . well they obviously don't know THE. PROPER. PROCEDURES."

Eventually after much grovelling and every travellers cheque being verified individually with Interpol I got some money.

The following week I went back to the branch at xx, and having got a different teller from before, expected a sudden return to THE. PROPER. PROCEDURES. But no, I got my cash in three minutes with no trouble, minimal checking and a merry smile. Hmm

TandB · 16/05/2011 20:37

I so should have made her reverse.

[missed a trick emoticon]

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PelvicFloorsOfSteel · 16/05/2011 20:48

Can anyone tell me more about withdrawing from cashpoints with no card? I know it's possible because DS once made a few random button presses and the cashpoint I was trying to use asked me if I wanted to make a cardless withdrawal but I've never officially heard of the concept?

GeneHuntsMistress · 16/05/2011 20:50

I would rather keep all my money in a tin underneath the bed than ever bank with Bastard Barclays ever again.

KFP I think all this reversing business has unleashed your inner Amazonian. You go girl!

microserf · 16/05/2011 21:09

KFP, i really hope her reversing is excellent.

Nasty bank lady. I tried to explain to Santander why I was leaving their excellent establishment. My explanation "the queues are so long at my local branch that the last time i was there, a fight broke out" was, to their credit, accepted reasonably graciously.

Pixielovescake · 16/05/2011 21:12

I have had the misfortune to use Barcleys. And yes i did compalin. Repeatedly. I did eventually manage to get an apology and a token gesture of some cash , not enough but it was a start. Well done OP - she sounds a right bitch.

HerHissyness · 16/05/2011 21:13

Pannda! Legend AGAIN!

I do hope you rewarded Mrs Slam-Flap with the MN patented Thank You, So Very Kind

SarahStratton · 16/05/2011 21:15

KFP you seriously need to go in every day this week. And withdraw £20. From her plastic slammy flap.

Obviously you need to keep your card on you at all times. Tell her you did just that and it fell down the loo.

TandB · 16/05/2011 21:20

It might be tricky to make sure she always serves me - I would have to let people overtake me in the queue so that I could be served by "my special friend"......

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BitOfFun · 16/05/2011 21:23

Thread juxtaposition:

AIBU to have got the massive arse with this woman?
AIBU to not want to look at this woman's arsehole?

Are these events connected? I think we should be told...

ChockAGirl · 16/05/2011 21:25

It must be the day for arsey bank tellers, I had one in crap west being incredulous as though I was an absolute idiot that I wasn't interested in an instant access savings account that she was trying to force on me. My money in my account is all legal and it's none of her business what my reasons are for keeping it there are.

ChockAGirl · 16/05/2011 21:27

Btw loving your work KFP (both bank and reversing related) Grin

GnomeDePlume · 16/05/2011 21:29

You were probably preceded by someone trying to pay their hamster into their deposit account which had used up all her reasonableness.

MenaZovut · 16/05/2011 21:32

CrapWest once sent me a bit mad. My card was damaged in some way and wouldn't work in the cash point. I went into the branch with the card explained my problem and asked to withdraw money, I even happened to have my passport and driving licence on me. They refused saying they could only do this if I had a chequebook, which of course as per usual form had not been sent to me when the old one finished despite requesting it. I was told I had to wait for either the new card or chequebook to arrive. I pointed out I couldn't be without money for a week or so (god knows how long knowing them). I ended up going over the road to open an account using my ID with another bank, going back to them and signing a transfer form to transfer the money and withdrawing it from my new account. Mad that that could be easier. I now bank with bank B.

AllDirections · 16/05/2011 21:39

Last year I managed to travel 200 miles before realising that I'd left my handbag at home. No problem I thought, Barclays will help me as I've been a customer with them forever. They would NOT help me, but I didn't think to ask to speak to the manager probably because I was in too much of a state by then. I even said that somebody (also with a Barclays account)would stand in my local branch and pay in some money for me. But they couldn't give it to me because I had no ID. How hard is it for a cashier in my local branch to phone this branch and say 'give this cash to the woman that is waiting for it'?

Fecklessdizzy · 16/05/2011 23:17

I WANT a liccle plastic flap to slam, life would be so sweet ...

idratherbeboarding · 17/05/2011 15:36

You did well to keep your calm; I don't think I could have done. I totally understand when staff are following rules, if they do so in a polite way, but I can so tell when someone is being painful for the sake of it, because it gives them a sense of satisfaction in their otherwise meaningless lives. You can feel it as soon as you walk up to the counter; obstinacy and contrariness just ooze out of every pore.

superv1xen · 17/05/2011 15:38

uurgh hate jobsworths Hmm

Rhinestone · 17/05/2011 16:18

YABVU to have used the phrase, "...to have got the massive arse with..."

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