My Ex DP comes round Mon, Wed and Thurs evening to "help" put the kids to bed, I dont need the "help" but I allow him round so he can see the kids. He also has them all day Sunday and puts them to bed on his own.
He will be starting to have them over night on Saturdays soon, every other weekend, the possibly from Friday night to Sunday a few months later. My DC are 3.5 and 20 months. My 20 month old still breastfeeds loads at night still hence the delay in them having them over night so far.
He has taken his name off the mortgage now as he doesnt want my new DP in the house whilst he still "owns" it even though he moved out last August and hasnt paid the mortgage since!! He has since found a new girlfriend and has spent his day with the kids with her. He also never takes the time off work when they're ill and I have to every time. He refuses because " I am the main carer" Yet he sees them more than most fathers who are still with the mothers.
He has been so unreasonable so far so would I be a mug to let him see the kids during the week at my house plus him have them over night every other weekend? When he's at mine during the week the kids want me to bath them, read them them a book and put them into bed.
I dont want him there but I dont want to cause an arguement about how I am "denying him his right to his children"
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KissMyMarigolds · 10/05/2011 10:47
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