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To be really cross with all my friends for different reasons and now feel unloved and alone

58 replies

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:32

Even though it's me not speaking to them?

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jeckadeck · 06/05/2011 19:33

more details please?

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 06/05/2011 19:34

I have no idea at all. I need to know what they've done Grin

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:34

You would die from boredom. Assemble a mixed list of reasons and apply them liberally.

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DollyTwat · 06/05/2011 19:34

Not you hully?
You who is so full of love
Fuck 'em
What have they all done?

Ormirian · 06/05/2011 19:36

Hully- you are the spirit of reasonableness! Your friends have to be wrong.

Grin
Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:36

Well.

One, very batty friend, asked if we were going to have an easter egg hunt and we said oh yes, how lovely. So we went to the shop, bought eggs, tidied the garden and waited for her and her dc to show up...and she forgot. We even had given up waiting, the dc collected the eggs, the doorbell rang and we thought it was them so dashed round putting them all back. It wasn't.

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Oakmaiden · 06/05/2011 19:37

Have they all been so horrid you can't speak to them?

Or are you feeling sensitive and easily hurt at the moment, and perhaps overreacting by refusing to talk to them?

Either way, it is horrid to feel unloved and alone. You have my sympathy.

Quattrocento · 06/05/2011 19:38

Pre-menstrual?

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 06/05/2011 19:38

Looking on the bright side though, more chocolate for you.

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 06/05/2011 19:38

go on, give us another one.

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:39

Another got terribly drunk and then had a total go at me about my education choices (don't go there), and I was terribly forebearing, pretended it was a general discussion and didn't even point out her rank hypocrisy.

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HecateQueenOfTheNight · 06/05/2011 19:40

Hmm you didn't tear her a new one?

Hmm who are you and what have you done with Hully?

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:42

tear her a new what?

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Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:42

I am supposed to be going out with them all later. I shall drink lots beforehand and have at them

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KurriKurri · 06/05/2011 19:43

Could you forgive the easter egg friend - given that she's batty and presumably prone to forgetting stuff?

Do your friends realise you are not speaking to them and why? because if they don't I would drop the whole not speaking thing and go back to being friendly, the not speaking and being cross business seems to be making you unhappy.

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:43

But I am UPSET. And now I am upset that more people aren't sympathetic about my upset.

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Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:44

Yes, I know that kurri, but I am sulking.

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Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:45

I can't be friendly, I am full of froideur

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KurriKurri · 06/05/2011 19:46

Then you have to make it clear to your friends you are sulking, so that they feel guilty and remorseful, then promise never to upset you again. There is no point in sulking if it is done quietly on your own.

miniwedge · 06/05/2011 19:46

I am sympathetic. I love you.

But for fucks sake tell them why you are upset. Most people are not psychic. All people are bastards though.

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:47

I can't make it clear, it lacks dignity. I need them to realise that I am like an iceberg and it's their fault.

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miniwedge · 06/05/2011 19:47

Hands hully an oil filled radiator to help with froideur.

Hullygully · 06/05/2011 19:47

But I do acknowledge that I would say what you lot are saying to anyone else.

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Ormirian · 06/05/2011 19:47

hully my love I didn't realise you were serious! I am quite prepared to sympathise.

How drunk are you already.?

MarshaBrady · 06/05/2011 19:47

Oh that egg thing is bad form. That you hid them all when the door bell rang.... very nice of you. I'd say something about that. Crapola!