Hullygully - I think your post clashed with bedtimes all over the land - hence lack of sympathy. And now you're going out, so won't see this. Oh well.
Don't feel unloved - this sort of stuff is always about things that are going on in other people's lives, rather than being genuinely a lack of love or care from them towards you.
Something is probably up in egg-person's life. School-person is probably tense about something in her child's school. Taking people to task about their school choice is a big social no no, so it was off, but alcohol + secret sadness.
Enjoy being an iceberg for a bit - I'm sure you've earned your right to have a sulk once in a while. But don't think you're not loved/respected by your friends - it's very unlikely to be the case. Not after all these years, anyway.
If it is a sign from your soul to yourself that you want to re-arrange your boundaries, or change relationships, or make changes in the way you deal with the world - think about it, and move slowly. although impulsive acts don't always end in disaster, I'm always an advocate of the ... erm ... aesthetic poise and accomplishment of the tortoise. there's a lot to be said for doing things slowly and in a considered way.
Have a lovely night.
I'm sure you will.