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To have sex with a practical stranger tonight?

91 replies

PainteditRed · 04/05/2011 16:17

I met him online, we've exchanged pics, met for coffee, etc etc. I am almost overthinking it in my head but am certain we will tonight, but am hesitant as I was married for years and it's all so new

Please exchange experiences/ advice.

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chrisonabike · 04/05/2011 17:37

I met a chap on the tinternet and shagged him sideways on the second date. We have a 2yo DS and are getting married next month Grin

Do it and give us the gory details including any shelf erection

Changing2011 · 04/05/2011 17:41

JEALOUS - go for it :)

CheshireDing · 04/05/2011 17:48

Ha ha dirty girl. Have a great time, there is nothing wrong with a fuck buddy as long as you both agree and use a condom (so no germies).

I am not going to tell you what I used to get up to before I met DH Grin.

Enjoy

OTheHugeManatee · 04/05/2011 17:50

Is he going to unblock your pipes for you?

ChippingIn · 04/05/2011 17:55

Go for it Grin

It would be somewhat hypocrital to suggest otherwise Wink

Bearcrumble · 04/05/2011 17:59

I'm sure you'll be looking like a plasterer's radio by the end of the evening.

MittzyTheMinx · 04/05/2011 18:16

'Is he going to knock on the door wearing his tool belt, and say, 'I heard you needed some drilling?' Grin Evenless...

Go on, go for it Painted, you're a long time dead...

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PainteditRed · 04/05/2011 19:21

Meeting him at 8, I'm all of a fluster!

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PainteditRed · 04/05/2011 19:23

Bearcrumble, weeping at the plasterers radio comment. clever lady

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PainteditRed · 04/05/2011 19:26

And for the pedants

How should I have worded it, 'a man who is practically a stranger'
' a practickle stranger'

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Mamaz0n · 04/05/2011 19:30

Stop panicing woman!

You like him, he sets your fanjo alight. if you have a nice time and you want to take him home and do the dirty then do!

Just make sure you do it safely.

have fun and take it one step at a time.

And remember that having sex outside wedlock does not make you a slag or a whore or anything else, it makes you a strong independant woman who knows her mind and acts upon her desires.

Now go have fun.....and come tell us all about it in the morning

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PainteditRed · 04/05/2011 19:50

Mamazo)n, always admired you as a very very strong woman

Big smacker for those sterling words as I set out

(gonna be fashionably late...don't want to seem too keen after all )

updates to follow

mwah

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MABS · 04/05/2011 20:07

Mamazon is exactly that, know her and admire her in RL. Shag the arse off him i say....but only if you tell us about it in the mornin ;-)

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ThatVikRinA22 · 04/05/2011 22:03

soooooooooo

how practical was her op? Grin

itsabiggywhatdoidonow · 04/05/2011 22:57

this practical? Grin

Tidey · 04/05/2011 23:03

Ahhh, bless. He's probably dancing seductively around with a spanner as we speak.

charmed185 · 04/05/2011 23:23

painted: I wish you all the very best tonight.. YOU GO GIRL HAVE FUN :)

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 04/05/2011 23:44

To think we should have been invited??
To have sex with a practical stranger tonight?

Two unrelated posts appearing in the above order? I reckon that's a yes - so at 23.44 precisely have you done it, are you still doing it, has the earth moved. and will you be having a quickie in the morning?

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PainteditRed · 05/05/2011 00:18

We didn't do it......

Did some very very teenage 'riding and snogging

then I freaked out

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 05/05/2011 01:26

Freaked out? As in went mental? Did he call the men in white coats?

Do tell more....

(wonders what "'riding" is? goes to bed with thought that i've missed out somewhere)

CurrySpice · 05/05/2011 01:31

If he turns out to be a dud in the bedroom but is very practical, send him here, I've a light fitting that needs putting up and I can't reach

Vallhala · 05/05/2011 01:36

Freaked out? Shall we call a doctor?!

What did he do wrong? (Or what did he do that was too right? Wink )