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AIBU To think parents that refuse to buy their kids easter eggs are a bit twatty?!

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dingdongmrs · 24/04/2011 15:34

Can i sat twatty?! lol

seriously, im sorry i offend anyone, well no im not really cos this is my opinion but it annoys me when parents say "oh i didnt buy my kids any easter eggs, theyre a waste of money" or the new thing "its too unhealthy" i mean its a chocolate egg for god sake, surely one will not matter, unless theyre intolerant to chocolate or whatever but come on!!

I was having a look on netmums and there is a thread on there of all these women saying they wont buy their kids eggs cos theyre too expensive (yet they buy them a mass amount of clothes or expensive holidays each year) and there the healthy eating briagde saying they wont buy them because they will may the kids obese ect ect

i spent ten pound on some eggs for my kids, just ten pound, not a fortune, asda have them for a pound each for goodness sake!

when i was a kid we had lots of easter eggs each year, and no im not obese!! lol

i just think some people are a little too anal about some things! maybe i am being unreasonal but i want my kids to enjoy easter ect and an egg wont hurt surely!

and yes i wanted to rant cos i couldnt rant on netmums as you get told off for having an opinion lol

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annapolly · 24/04/2011 21:23

I agree with you, no harm in one egg. They are not expensive.

If the only reason they are not given is because they are unhealthy then lighten up one treat wont hurt.

wharlie · 24/04/2011 21:34

Hi. first I do buy eggs for my 3 kids. About three each and family members buy them gifts instead. I make easter one day therefore they can make a pig of themselves for that day and then its all over any leftover thrown out or made into buns.

When I was a kid we had loads of eggs and Im not fat now, However I had bad teeth - my kids dont. I (stiill to this day) have very bad deit, ie Im fussy dont eat the right foods, addicted to junk and very underweight. Funny but I want better for my kids. I dont blame mum i was feed the same as everyone else. I'm older now and with so much info about what is bad for us I dont think it is unreasonable to be more strict

Whitewithnosugarplease · 24/04/2011 21:35

My DS has been with ny ex PIL today. He wasn't allowed to bring any of his eggs home from that side of the family they have to stay at Grannies, he was really upset about it. I'm so pleased I bought him one.

shmoz · 24/04/2011 21:37

YABU regarding your cavalier attitude towards the use of apostrophes and capital letters Shock

Blu · 24/04/2011 21:48

What really makes me FURIOUS is people who come over all sanctmonious about chocolate eggs, allergies, christianity, rotting teeth, diabetes, whatever, and then say 'I just give them the money to buy what they want' or 'we're getting them a 42" flat screen TV this year instead of a Smarties egg" or "ours prefer a book or 20 new apps to an egg".

Easter isn't just another occasion to buy loads of presents, it's just the EGGS are traditional. If you don't give them an egg, don't give them ANYTHNG.

TWATS.

lol.

Counterstrike · 24/04/2011 21:50

I think they should have one or two, but not too many! I find it hard to believe that one egg is 500 calories, not including the numerous chocolate bars that are added!

madmomma · 24/04/2011 21:52

The fact that people get all uppity on here makes me pee myself!

Sidge · 24/04/2011 22:15

Well my DD2 can't have chocolate due to her medical condition, and it would be unfair to give them to her sisters and not get one herself so no, my girls don't have Easter Eggs.

And I'm not a twat.

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Sidge · 24/04/2011 22:24

lockets she can't have sweets either, or biscuits, crisps or cake.

Poor deprived child! Wink

Hope your DD enjoyed her egg full of sweeties.

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Sidge · 24/04/2011 22:41

Oh then you must eat the sweeties! I hate waste Grin

Yes she can have most foods but is on a "diet" - we don't calorie count but she is on a restricted intake hence why no wasted/empty calories.

She loves fruit and had a lovely bowl of chopped strawberries, raspberries, grapes and banana today - yummy!

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LDNmummy · 24/04/2011 22:48

Why should I indulge in a wasteful and over indulgent activity that is hyped up by massive corporations and has no benefit??

My child can have chocolate, just not when it is in a celebration of what I believe to be a hypocritcal religious celebration. Especially when I don't see what eggs have to do with Jesus' death and ressurection.

OP why are you so interested in this? It is not abuse to not buy your kid a chocolate egg now is it?

I think Easter is a load of crap, my child won't suffer for not having a chocolate egg FFS.

I have not read the whole thread so don't know what other's have said but that is a basic idea of why I think YABU.

shitmagnet · 24/04/2011 22:57

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MilaV · 24/04/2011 23:24

We're not religious and neither DD nor I give a damn about chocolat eggs. Ice creams, on the other hand, are a totally different thing...

Anyway, what are those super expensive eggs you're talking about? Is that an English thing? ;) And also, I never got the thing about bunnies and ducks, what have they got to do with easter? Please illustrate me!

TransatlanticCityGirl · 24/04/2011 23:53

Let's not forget the true meaning of Easter here. It is not about chocolate eggs and the Easter bunny. Receiving chocolate is not some kind of god given right. There's plenty of chocolate to be eaten any day of the year, so IMO yabu.

scottishmummy · 24/04/2011 23:54

true meaning of easter-unclench.its chocolate of course

stickylittlefingers · 24/04/2011 23:59

I didnt get chocolate eggs when I was a kid. I got book-tokens.

I have grown up to dislike milk chocolate and be short-sighted.

Thanks Mum and Dad

lol

GotArt · 25/04/2011 00:08

Blu I'm with you there.

LDNmummy "My child can have chocolate, just not when it is in a celebration of what I believe to be a hypocritcal religious celebration. Especially when I don't see what eggs have to do with Jesus' death and ressurection." Perhaps because your view on the Spring celebration is ignorant... and ignorant means 'not knowing', not that you are stupid.

DD doesn't get chocolate bars or any junk/fried/processed food for that matter 95% of the time, but for birthdays, Winter and Spring celebrations, I'm more than happy to develop our own traditions. We decorated hard boiled eggs, made some cookies and I bought a packet of Cadbury's eggs and hid them for her... not a big deal. I feel its a good thing to develop traditions within family for times of the years that humans have celebrated, like this time of the year, the coming of Spring and new life.

Easter is a combination of important events in different traditions.
Easter comes near to the time of the spring equinox on 21 March, when the length of the day and night are equal. Throughout history, many ancient cultures have celebrated this as a time of birth and renewal, following the darkness of the long winter.

In Christianity, Easter is preceded by Holy Week. This week includes Maundy Thursday, which commemorates Jesus' last supper with his disciples; and Good Friday, which remembers the day of his death. These somber days are then followed by Easter Sunday to celebrate the day that Jesus rose from the dead three days after his crucifixion.

Easter is also related to the Jewish holiday of Passover, a period that remembers Israelites' freedom from slavery in ancient Egypt. This is observed during Nisan, the first month of the Hebrew lunar year ? which also happens to be between March and April.

The term "Easter" is derived from the Teutonic goddess of spring and fertility, whose name is Eostre. Pagans had festivals in her honor during the spring equinox, when daytime is equal to night time.

So where did the Easter bunny and eggs come from?

Easter bunny, goes back a very long way and pre-dates Christianity. The historical intermingling of pagan, Christian and Jewish beliefs and practices has left its legacy in many of the things we maybe take for granted about Easter and its traditions today.

European pagan religion incorporated rabbits and hares in their celebration as a symbol of fertility. In Germany, pagans even named their hare "Oschter Haws" and early settlers introduced him to America during the 1700's. In their stories, Oschter Haws left eggs the night before Easter for the children to hunt and find on Easter morning ? some children would even build "nests" for these anticipated eggs in baskets and bonnets.

Who put the egg in Easter?
Though the roots of the celebrations are different, many cultures around the world observe spring holidays and festivals centered on the common theme of rebirth and the egg as a symbol of the source of life.

Dyed eggs were shared and eaten at spring festivals in ancient Egypt, Greece, Rome, Persia and China. Gradually these traditions made their way westward and were expressed in various forms ? from dyed goose eggs to beautifully decorated paper mâché eggs in the 17th and 18th centuries. In the late 19th and early 20th century the ultimate Easter eggs ? the Fabergé eggs made their royal appearance.

Eggs were used to represent resurrection ? a celebration of new life in Christianity. While the origin of coloring eggs is unknown, some reports date it back as far as 2,500 years ago where Zoroastrians painted eggs for a New Year celebration. Today, for varying reasons, beliefs, or for just plain fun, people from different cultures all over the world dye eggs and present them as gifts or as little treasures around Easter time.

Chocolate eggs come from Europe. Today?s European tradition of giving chocolate Easter eggs as gifts can be traced back to 19th century France and Germany. The first eggs were small and solid and made of a bitter dark chocolate. As technology improved and cocoa became more widely available, so did chocolate Easter eggs. The tradition spread to many parts of Europe, often with each country making their own unique mark.

The first mass-produced chocolate egg appeared in England in 1873 when Cadbury debuted their first Easter egg. It wasn?t until the early 1900s that milk chocolate Easter eggs became available. The modern chocolate Easter egg with its smoothness, shape and flavour owes its progression to the two greatest developments in the history of chocolate - the invention of a press for separating cocoa butter from the cocoa bean by the Dutch inventor Van Houten in 1828 and the introduction of a pure cocoa by Cadbury Brothers in 1866. The Cadbury process made large quantities of cocoa butter available and this was the secret of making moulded chocolate or indeed, any fine eating chocolate.

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ithaka · 25/04/2011 08:18

Easter is to celebrate the vernal equinox which is why the date changes every year (quite inconveniently!) and why the symbol is an egg, representing fertility and rebirth. Not much to do with christianity, predates all that.

I think some people shy back in horror from the unbridled pagan hedonism of letting children enjoy themselves too much, gorging on choccy eggs. I love it!

knit2tog · 25/04/2011 08:46

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dingdongmrs · 25/04/2011 09:07

I see this thread is still going strong! i didnt say it as child abuse not to give a child an egg but i do think it is mean and wrong not to allow a child at least one easter egg at easter.

And my use of !!!!!!!!!! and lol's is completely up to me, if i want to use them, i will. Get over it!

and thank you to everyone that has posted nice replies, its nice to get nice replies as well as arsey ones! lol

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TandB · 25/04/2011 09:14

Who cares? Some people do easter eggs, some don't.

It is hardly a marker of twattishness or anything that should "annoy" anyone else. It's just a personal choice.

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