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Colleague made a pass at me

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beanlet · 14/04/2011 20:53

I would be flattered if I wasn't so bemused, as at the moment I feel the least sexy I have ever felt...

We were at a conference this week involving an overnight stay. Despite the fact that I'm recently married, still packing loads of baby weight and breastfeeding, my colleague made an unmistakeable pass at me!!!!

Little did he know that I was desperate to get away from the group and pump my painful rock-hard breasts before they exploded Grin

So on a scale of 1 to 10 how U was he being?

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beanlet · 16/04/2011 09:34

Reading that back, it DOES sound like I sort of encouraged him...

Sigh. God I'm hopeless at this!

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plupedantic · 16/04/2011 11:18

He sounds a pretentious twat!

I really dislike people bringing sex into relations which are meant to be about business. Conferences, grrr....

SardineQueen · 16/04/2011 20:08

Hahahahahhahaha @ schubert sex pass.

That's one to dine out on surely Grin

Branno · 16/04/2011 21:19

I hated being whistled at .... until it stopped.
I hated men making passes at me ..... if I did not fancy them.

peppapighastakenovermylife · 16/04/2011 21:23

Beanlet - as a still breastfeeding, still packing the baby weight fellow new mum I have to admit I would have been a bit flattered too Blush. The common sense, logical part of me realises that is wrong.

peppapighastakenovermylife · 16/04/2011 21:26

'I always thought the reason BF is so unsexy is precisely because you are not (very) fertile at that time.'

Hmmm - I am wondering now if this is why my DH seems to find me even more attractive when I am breastfeeding precisely because I cant get pregnant Wink

peppapighastakenovermylife · 16/04/2011 21:27

Oh yes...and what did he do Grin

peppapighastakenovermylife · 16/04/2011 21:28

Ah just read...hmmm. I'm not sure I would want that pass...unless he was particularly attractive Wink

Mumcentreplus · 16/04/2011 21:39

Well you still got it lady!...rock hard breasts and all! Grin...I'm always amazed on my bad-hair didn't think about what the hell I was wearing wearing dodgy shoes days when I get hit on...you are a sexy momma!!

MaisyMooCow · 16/04/2011 21:48

My (male) boss reckons he can always tell when a women is ovulating and 'up for it' as he puts it. He says we display a different type of behaviour. The SCARY thing is that the last couple of times he's said it to me he's been bloody right!
(btw - yes, boss is a pervert but makes me laugh all the same!)

hairfullofsnakes · 17/04/2011 08:50

What does he look like?

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