I'd consider agreeing with cuts to Child Benefit IF it was dojne failry, not in a way that some famillies lost out on a lower income than others
CTF- probably agree; nice idea but......
The DLA: it;s how ti will be cut for me. ATOS. DS1 needs 24/7 supervision, backed up by the need for a specialist palcement at senior school, but his ASD is not visible and we know we will struggle for DLA renewal bext eyar becuase ATOS are all about the visible. DS1 has ASD, but holding it togetehr for a visit by an unfamiliar ATOS assessor may be possible: the beating i will get after is guaranteed.
We shall see.
We've also lost a lot of our help; to clarify, we have 2 with autism and we were told yesterday that ds4 has to be referred becuase he is showing asd traits (echolalia, atypical point) and failed his developmental check yesterday. The holiday provision ahs been reduced from 6 ti 2 hours: was for all kkds not just SN, SN kdis got extra help though. So two hours, with the boys unable to attend togetehr becuase of how ds1 treats ds3, meant a possible timetable of:
9.30 - 10.45: on the road dropping off ds1
11.30: 12.45: collecting ds3
12.30- 1.30: dropping ds1
3.30 - 4.30 collecting ds1
with another possiby asd child and one with ADD / dyspraxia kicking of in the car alongside me.
So, we lose the help for one child.... had to be ds1 as ds3 depends on the routine: more bruises pour moi!
I have a new Carer's Assessment coming up; I know what the answer will be. Always the same: Mum is capable and will find a way to cope, no help needed. not so sure myself: DH is in counselling at his college, I would be if I could get childcare on the day the GP offers it. I had a plan involving returning to work but who knows with a new possible dx and DH has been advised to consider a Phd; I did start to apck my bags last ight after the HV told me about the dx but I;d miss the kids too much and I love DH.
So cuts or no cuts heck, i'm 37, i'll be dead within 70 years (my lot go to 90). That's not forever. One day I might get some sleep, even if it's permanent.