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Tell me if I'm being precious over this

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Dancergirl · 01/04/2011 09:43

My dds have been learning a Mothers Day song at school. Dd2 sang it to me in the car yesterday and it contains this line:

'Sometimes she gets stressy'

I'm a bit of a stickler for spelling/punctuation/general good grammar and I object to the non-word 'stressy'. How can we expect our children to speak well and properly if they're learning things like this....?

Would this annoy you?

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piprabbit · 01/04/2011 11:47

Why doesn't the song mention any the happy stuff?

I'm not unremittingly grumpy, I don't need allowances to be made for my miserable behaviour because ,after all I do love them and I'm the only mummy they've got.

I want to celebrate the happy, fun, rewarding relationship between myself and my children. Yes, I do occassionally get cross or grumpy but it's not my defining characteristic.

DiscoDaisy · 01/04/2011 11:48

I love the song that senua posted. It describes me to a tee!

MardyBra · 01/04/2011 11:48

Anyway, going back to the word "stressy". I would say that is certainly used colloquially and your description of it as a "non-word" is incorrect.

It's in the Cambridge dictionary here.

Whether you object to it as being too informal for a children's song is another matter (I personally don't, although as you've probably gathered there are other parts of the song I object to).

PixieOnaLeaf · 01/04/2011 11:51

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BalloonSlayer · 01/04/2011 11:52

So, OP, what do you say to those of us who think that "precious" is a word that describes an item of intense value to somebody and should not be used as a way to describe a person acting in a fussy or self-indulgent fashion?

PixieOnaLeaf · 01/04/2011 11:54

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Underachieving · 01/04/2011 11:54

YAB preshus.

PixieOnaLeaf · 01/04/2011 11:55

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Theonlyexception · 01/04/2011 11:57

For those of you offended by the sexism in this song, this is the one we used to sing at school:

Don't forget to tell your mum you love her,
Give her a hug when you get home,
Don't forget to tell your mum that she's the best,
Make her put her feet up she deserves a rest!
Don't forget to tell your mum you love her...
She does all the washing,the cleaning,the shopping,
And all because she loves us so!

MardyBra · 01/04/2011 12:04

I seem to remember my kids singing one to the tune of "The Animals Went in Two by Two""
Can't remember all the words but it sort of went:

I love my mum, she cares for me - Hurrah Hurrah
I love my mum, she cares for me, she something or other and cooks my tea...

moonstonezoe · 01/04/2011 12:27

yes

moonstonezoe · 01/04/2011 12:28

Sorry, to clarify previous post. Yes it would annoy me.

TotemPole · 01/04/2011 12:31

Roses are red.
My mum is blue.
I think she looks odd.
You would too.

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