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how long after meeting your current DP did you have sex?

124 replies

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 19/03/2011 19:34

bet no-one can beat mine....
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CouldNeverHave3 · 19/03/2011 22:03

2nd opportinity. Declined the 1st like a good girl!!

whoamamma · 19/03/2011 22:03

Second date (so about 5 days).

Raahh · 19/03/2011 22:06

about a month- mainly because when he met me I had a 5 month ds conceived on a ONS, so didn't want to appear as eager as I was Blush

Been together 8 years, married 4, and have 2 more dd's, so all good.

(I did 'meet' him internet dating, too)

He is lovely .

QueeferSutherland · 19/03/2011 23:19

Wow I feel positively chaste!

5 months or so.

GorgeousMrsDepp · 19/03/2011 23:26

About an hour!!

supersalstrawberry · 19/03/2011 23:39

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Alibabaandthe40nappies · 19/03/2011 23:39

2 hours perhaps? Grin

Together for 6 years, married 3.5, one DS and another DC due next week.

BuntyPenfold · 19/03/2011 23:42

About 20 minutes.
Married now and blissful.

TimeToStartACHEEKYDiet · 20/03/2011 01:32

3 weeks as we were fuck buddies but after becoming a couple 3 weeks later, i fell pregnant 3 weeks after that.

TimeToStartACHEEKYDiet · 20/03/2011 01:33

he took me to blackpool for the weekend - it was bliss Grin

PenguinArmy · 20/03/2011 01:40

we had seen each at work for a few weeks but not spoken, then we had a works night out. If you count it from when we first spoke that night than about 6 hours.

CheeseEnforcementAgency · 20/03/2011 08:29

From him kissing me to sex 6 days but from first date 4 days. Told me he loved me the day before which freaked me out rather than influenced my decision!

BeeMyBaby · 20/03/2011 08:43

about two hours from meeting him in his kitchen, we had never spoken before etc. He proposed after 3 months and been together four years now, married for almost 3 with 1 year old DD.

Lizzylou · 20/03/2011 08:54

A few hours.
That was 15 years ago, married for 9 years this year.

davidtennantsmistress · 20/03/2011 08:57

a month, we met on the weds night, he shipped out on the friday morning a month later I met him half way for a dirty weekend date with a view to maybe stopping the night, and well that was friday, & returned home sunday lunchtime - needless to say it was a good weekend, and amazingly enough we went out - think it was me dragging him to the beach watching him squirm & try not to look at the bikini clad bodies on said beach, then dragging him around the shops & getting him to carry my bags that settled the deal for me.

noodle69 · 20/03/2011 09:04

A week and a half but that was only as we had no choice as we were in military training. I wouldnt of waited that long if we could have done it sooner. We were engaged after 10 weeks, married after a year and a half and have now been married 7 years. We are now aged 26 and 27.

confuddledDOTcom · 20/03/2011 09:37

First time round we'd been together almost 4 years and married 3 days...

With this one it was our first meeting irl we met in a pub, got dinner and saw a film then went back to mine - I lived in the city centre in those days and as it was a Friday night and chaos outside I said he could stay and get a bus next day - was about 5 hours I guess. We never "got" engaged, it just became sort of assumed. We would have been married a lot sooner but he hadn't bothered to get divorced! We're now on our 4th baby including our angelbaby, getting married next year and I've not been the other woman for almost 3 weeks!

confuddledDOTcom · 20/03/2011 09:37

We've been together 7 years this year.

CheerfulYank · 20/03/2011 09:39

Wait, what? Confused

upyourdiva · 20/03/2011 09:45

We were together 5 months before we had sex.

Experimented with everything else in the mean time...

We were 14/15 though Blush.

Still together 10 years on.

stoppinchingthedummy · 20/03/2011 09:46

13 weeks :) still together almost 10 years on :D

upyourdiva · 20/03/2011 09:48

Confuddled, appropriate name... :o

So you were with your DP 4 years and 3 days before you slept together.
Then got divorced.
He married again and you resumed where you'd left off.
Then he divorced his wife and married you again.

Am I getting it Confused

LifeIsButtercream · 20/03/2011 09:49

69 days. And no, I'm not kidding Grin

FoofffyShmoofffer · 20/03/2011 09:53

9 weeks. We arranged a (dirty) weekend away and waited till then.
I still don't know what Yorkshire looks like outside a window.

confuddledDOTcom · 20/03/2011 10:04

No, I was talking about my first time. Different men lol

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