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how long after meeting your current DP did you have sex?

124 replies

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 19/03/2011 19:34

bet no-one can beat mine....
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lololizzy · 19/03/2011 19:47

ha glad to know i'm 'good' at something Blush Blush this is the first time i've admitted how quick it was!

corsa100 · 19/03/2011 19:47

9 months with first dh to be, and 6 months with 2nd. That was back in the dark ages obviously!

onlion · 19/03/2011 19:48

I would count your online meeting though, wouldnt you?

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lololizzy · 19/03/2011 19:50

met on Facebook. had seen his face once before but didnt realise that i had till we met properly..we were meant to meet earlier but i got swine flu very badly so it was weeks of dirty phone calls, we knew it was pretty inevitable that as soon as we met...mind you i did think we'd wait a few hours!

Piffle · 19/03/2011 19:50

8 hrs we are now married (10 yrs together and 2 kids)

Sukie1971 · 19/03/2011 19:51

First time round (while at college) about 2 hrs Blush

Second time round, after a 23 yr gap, 5 weeks Grin.

My morals have improved with age.

First time round we lasted 8 weeks, this time its been 2 yrs and 7 months so far, and still blissfully happy.

allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 19/03/2011 19:51

hmm, I dont know onlion , never really thought of that as meeting him before...? especially as it was just friendly at first...

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Piffle · 19/03/2011 19:52

8 hrs.. but the first 6 mins we were not in public Grin

phooey · 19/03/2011 19:55

About a week, in a hostel swimming pool Blush

We met abroad and were inseparable pretty much immediately - instead of going home to our respective countries, we eloped to Bangkok together Grin a great story to tell our DCs when they exist

FreudianSlippery · 19/03/2011 19:55

I met my DH when I was 15, and he was 34. I was an inpatient in hospital and he was the nurse!

Went on our first date just after my 16th birthday and I was too nervous to even kiss him! At new year we got intimate for the first time but it took a while to get to full sex (he had ishoos due to his disastrous first marriage) so maybe 3 months total between meeting and shagging. Aforementioned Ishoos resolved themselves fairly quickly after that :o

feeblephoebe · 19/03/2011 19:58

about three months

littlesez · 19/03/2011 19:59

what a very personal question but i will still answer 6 months from meeting but we were friends first. I think he stayed at my house twice before we did anything which is very self controlled I think!

LisaD1 · 19/03/2011 20:00

About 4 weeks but I certainly would have that first night, he made me wait!!

Been together 7 years now, married with DC. Now I make him wait!

CheerfulYank · 19/03/2011 20:01

It was awhile. He was all religious and virginal and respectful. Sigh... :) Still is, actually, though minus the virginal part of course!

bettydraperswardrobeelf · 19/03/2011 20:04

6 weeks, but he was my first. We've now been together 11 years and have a 4mo DS....

inchoccyheaven · 19/03/2011 20:05

About 4 years with very first boyfriend, about 6 months with 2nd and 2 months with DH.
Would wait again if I was ever single as I like to be in love ( blush)

QuintessentialShadows · 19/03/2011 20:05

With dh? Third date.

With previous boyfriend?

Within 2 minutes of meeting him.

onehotmomma · 19/03/2011 20:08

3 weeks with DH :) would have been first night though if I had my way Blush

amyamyamy · 19/03/2011 20:12

FreudianSlipper he was your nurse. You were 15 and he was 34. Hmmmm.....sorry, but that sounds very wrong (not for you, but for him). How long have you now been together? How is it now?

AprilRose · 19/03/2011 20:12

2 months... We were living in different countries so the wait was necessary. Flight was delayed about 11 hours, which was rather frustrating. Once I got there it was just a matter of getting from the airport to the bed!!

JaneS · 19/03/2011 20:13

About three years. We'd been dating nearly two years of that time, legally married about 40 hours, and we'd just finished the religious ceremony. Grin

It was the first time I'd not got the sex sorted out first before starting in on the relationship.

AprilRose · 19/03/2011 20:14

(sorry, just noticed it says 'current' DP, so shall pretend I answered a couple of months ago! Turns out it's a bit tricky to maintain the overseas thing!)

wrinklyraisin · 19/03/2011 20:18

We met online on September 14th last year, met in person for the first time on January 26th, and had 4 dates that weekend and the next weekend. Valentines day he came to NYC and we stayed in a hotel and had hours of rampant nooky! So, 5 months to the day since meeting.

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