DP and I are always in the bathroom together, not specifically for poos, we just have an open door policy when getting ready to go somewhere, so if I am peeing or showering he can come in. He has seen me do a number 2 and vice versa, more than once, quite a few times actually. If I am going to be with him for life, surely the reality that he poos and wees and stinks up the bathroom is just par for the course? Otherwise isnt it kinda wierd, like keeping this little secret.
For instance, my younger sibling has been with her fiance for 3 years and they are engaged. Once we were at my mothers house and my DP came into the room where my sibling, mother and I were standing. I did a toot (childish tee hee) and carried on. She looked at me disgusted and said "OMG! I have been with xxxx 3 years and have never farted in front of him, thats disgusting." My DP standing beside her played along, he likes to take the mickey out of me sometimes in a cheeky way and I laughed. We later talked about it and he thought it was really bizarre, like living a lie. And then we started laughing about it, my DP was wondering what in the hell she did, did she store it all up and then run to the bathroom for release, in her own home??
Give me a break, life is too short.
And it is definitely not a passion killer for us, you would have to be prudish IMO to relate the two things. Domestic realitites are just that, passion in the bedroom is something else entirely. The joining factor is that both involve our bodies, shouldn't there just be an acceptance that our bodies are built to do both great and smelly things? Its just natural FGS.