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to think INVITE for INVITATION grates on me.

27 replies

GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 12:47

I dont give a damn about grammar etc on mumsnet. No intention of cramping anyones style..

But it does grate on me when a newsreader
says "Have you had your INVITE yet?"

I would say INVITATION in that context; but the evidence of wordy news geezers seems
to be against me.

It will always grate on me, even if someone with a degree inEnglish tells me its correct.

cheers "Gabby"

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Hammy02 · 10/03/2011 12:49

Do you say your name out loud at the end of each sentence in real life Gabby?! "Hammy"

Adair · 10/03/2011 12:52

Oh, "Gabby", it does, it does!

But not as much as someone putting their name in inverted commas at the end of a post Wink.

JaneS · 10/03/2011 12:54

Degree in English here; it's not correct.

HTH Wink

GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 12:59

Hammy has an A level in things that "Dont matter"

I think you are being petty because you cant cope with the question . Is there someone with an A level in english? A teacher perhaps

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givemesomespace · 10/03/2011 13:01

Annoys the hell out of me. What bugs me more though, is the very fact that it annoys me - life's too short to worry about things like this - but they still annoy me!! Thanks Gabby - you've ruined my day

GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 13:10

Givemesomespace

Life is full of major and minor events whether we like it or not.

I do both, and if your life is ruined by a simple question..how do you cope with 10 per cent of the worlds population starving.

Get a sense of proportion and post again.

Iam asking about newsreaders grammar not mumsnet posters.

mumsnet has too many wouldbe censors among the posters. Leave that to the bosses of MN

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GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 13:14

Givemesomespace

Life is full of major and minor events whether we like it or not.

I do both, and if your life is ruined by a simple question..how do you cope with 10 per cent of the worlds population starving.

Get a sense of proportion and post again.

Iam asking about newsreaders grammar not mumsnet posters.

mumsnet has too many wouldbe censors among the posters. Leave that to the bosses of MN

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SlightlyJaded · 10/03/2011 13:21

Ah Gabby. The very person, I was feeling quite bored.

Invite is, of course, wrong (even if it is grammatically correct which I very much doubt).

It's a verb surely?

It's like asking "Have you made a reserve?" instead of "Have you made a reservation". Utter nonsense.

LionRock · 10/03/2011 13:24

Invite / invitation annoys me too.

My new one though is "should of" rather than "should have" which appears a lot on internet comments

givemesomespace · 10/03/2011 13:24

Hey Gabby - calm calm - Was only pulling ya leg :)

GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 13:33

Ok Geveme some

I am on about newsreaders. Words is there profession

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Hammy02 · 10/03/2011 13:39

FWIW, I do think correct use of the English language matters. My problem is with poor use of apostrophes. In our local pub there is a sign saying 'toilet's'. Eh? Who do the toilets belong to?! Vexes me each time I go there!

GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 13:44

Slightlyjaded Thanks for your post...Its just a thing which niggles me. on the news.

Can I put "lifting the slightly jaded" on my CV?

LionRock....thanks for sticking to the question.

(I think people are too sensitive on language. So far as I am concerned anything goes on Mumsnet..)

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GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 13:45

Hammy I have difficulties with apostrophes...

George Bernard Shaw did not use them

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GabbyLoggon · 10/03/2011 13:48

sorry this turned into a spat. Not intended

But you never can tell with mumsnetters

we are an eclectic bunch

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pgpg · 10/03/2011 14:38

My daughter tells me to "get over it" when I become apoplectic at the use of the verb "invite" instead of the noun "invitation". But I can't, I just can't. [sob]

Eats, shoots herself and leaves...

Vallhala · 10/03/2011 14:41

I know it's not correct and yet still I say it. I irritate the hell out of myself doing so too!

I blame my Sarf Lundun upbringing.

Please feel free to pull me up on it if you catch me using "invite" instead of "invitation". :)

BadPoet · 10/03/2011 14:44

Me too Vallhala, me too.

I'm Scottish though, shall I blame that? Or maybe I'll blame text messaging?

SlightlyJaded · 10/03/2011 14:48

You're welcome Gabby.

It's annoying. But not as annoying as my nephew and his friends who insist on asking (every time they want to know how something came about) "how comes?"

"How come?" is quite lazy but "How comes?" wtf is that.

mamaGool · 10/03/2011 22:14

"Words is there profession." Confused

Joking, presumably Gabby..? Grin

PurveyorOfWoo · 10/03/2011 22:17

Try the Pedants Corner Gabby, they always have a thing or two to say on the appropriate use of English

Susiewho · 10/03/2011 22:18

It grates on me too. Why do you put quotation marks around your name, Gabby?

GabbyLoggon · 11/03/2011 11:38

Slightlyjaded....I would drop the S and say "how come?" But I dont do it regularly. How are you getting on with "wicked" and "minger?"

PGPG "get over it," is an interesting one. I hear it said by female coaches or motivators. Seems harsh to me.

Vallhalla Just "get over it" sorry about that.

On apostrophes, I am not comfortable. I told you GBS a great writer did not use them at first. He wrote DONT CANT WONT SHANT (It looks odd because we arent used to it. ) Gripes apart English is a wonderful language.

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Melly19MummyToBe · 11/03/2011 11:47

I saw on the news ages ago that they're actually considering DROPPING the apostrophe from the english grammar because it confuses so many people and no-one can use them properly apparantly! This was a couple of years ago now though.

GabbyLoggon · 11/03/2011 11:57

Melly19mummy...yes, I vaguely remember something about ditching the apostrophe.

People get very hot under the collar aboutit. Harsh words are spoken in the letters columns of the posh papers.

If I am not sure I just ask the wife; or leave it off.

A female author wrote a good book on English. It had a title something like "Eats, Shoots and Leaves." Well written, but I thought she was taking punctuation a tad too seriously. cheers.

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