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Is it worse to be long term unemployed or a smoker ?

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cumfy · 26/02/2011 12:51

I do mean at a personal level, not an economic one.

eg. You are to spend 3-4 hours in the company of an unknown person of the same age and gender as yourself.
There is a choice of:

A) Unemployed for >1 year, non-smoker.
B) Employed for >1 year, smoker.

Do you choose A, B or no preference ?

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GMajor7 · 26/02/2011 13:20

Er, I work in environments where a high percentage of people I encounter are unemployed smokers. I don't think about it. To me they are people.

AnnieOnAMapleLeaf · 26/02/2011 13:22

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pjmama · 26/02/2011 13:27

I can't stand stale fag stink, so would probably go for the unemployed person. However, if they'd both just had a shower and were lovely and fresh, I would have no preference. Unless one of them was an annoying nob of course, then all bets are off.

cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:27

I'm sorry you were unable to understand the question Annie.

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allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 26/02/2011 13:29

GM7 you think unemployed smokers are PEOPLE ????
[baffled]

lockets · 26/02/2011 13:31

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AnnieOnAMapleLeaf · 26/02/2011 13:32

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FabbyChic · 26/02/2011 13:33

What if someone was both.

I smoke and currently not working because I am sick.

Does that make me a social outcast.

To be honest I find your thread offensive towards the unemployed and smokers.

We do not compartmentalise our friends because of what they do and if they smoke.

cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:33

We are both sorry. That's great. :o

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AnnieOnAMapleLeaf · 26/02/2011 13:39

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allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 26/02/2011 13:39

I get that its not the most, ahem, politically correct question ever on AIBU, but I dont see how the question itself is confusing?

Unless of course you mean that its not an AIBU?

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allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 26/02/2011 13:40

I am an employed non-smoker, I am therefore better than Jeebus

:)

AnnieOnAMapleLeaf · 26/02/2011 13:42

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AnnieOnAMapleLeaf · 26/02/2011 13:43

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cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:45

Seems you did understand the question Annie.

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cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:46

xpost to your penultimate comment Annie

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StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 26/02/2011 13:47

Got in one Annie. Nasty thread.

I'll take an unemployed smoker over a bigot anyday.

AnnieOnAMapleLeaf · 26/02/2011 13:48

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allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 26/02/2011 13:52

That, Annie , I agree with. I thought you genuinely didnt understand Grin

On a related subject, which is worse. Herpes or a bigot?

cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:53

I think you misunderstand the thread in such polar manner, that it's really helpful.

Exactly the opposite.

I am interested in how and why people stigmatise different groups.

Unfortunately, those that do, haven't appeared to have made much of a showing on this thread so far. :(

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worraliberty · 26/02/2011 13:55

Can I just ask before I make my decision...

Does the long term unemployed person have a flat screen TV that measures 50" or more?

This I feel is the dealbreaker Grin

CrazyHorse · 26/02/2011 13:57

I need to know under what circumstances I would be spending 3-4 hours with the person, before I can decide.

cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:58

worra
It would be thoroughly unscientific to reveal that detail I'm afraid.:o

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allsquareknickersnofurcoat · 26/02/2011 13:58

I get your question cumfy , I think you'll find I answered upthread ^ :)

cumfy · 26/02/2011 13:59

Crazy
It would be randomly selected.

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