did i do the right thing

[TheLadyEvenstar]

I did my usual and checked DS1's facebook
there on his page was a message and a video saying

"Who is cummin prk afta skool amora warn ya tho bring towel n wear own clothes under ya uniform os it gonna be wet we either jumpin or bein pushed in lake"

Now DS1 didn't put this up nor the video but the children hang around together and I don't want him involved.

So I called the school and told them what was happening.

was I wrong/

actually it is a very good idea.

Whilst I allow him to have an account he is still a child and he has to follow my rules.
He wanted to account I allowed him on the basis I would regularly check it.

On a slightly different tack ,have you checked with local pools about older kids swimming lessons ? i know one of ours does this for children in secondary school who cant or are poor swimmers ,he might feel more comfortable swimming with his peer group or try private lessons , he would probably only need a few to be a sufficiently good swimmer .