One of my closest friends got married almost six months ago...
I got over the fact that she didn't ask me to be bridesmaid (she asked someone else who she later said she regretted because she caused nothing but grief over dresses etc)...instead I helped out and I did all the flowers...she then asked me to do a reading during the ceremony, which I did...I got over the fact that I ended up out of pocket for the flowers...I got over the fact that I never got a thank you in the speeches...I got over the fact that I was the one (not her family or bridesmaids) who was expected to travel a 40mile round trip the day after the wedding to sort a problem with the hotel...
THEN I saw photos on facebook of an apparent second hen night that I wasn't invited to, or told about...the straw that broke the camel's back...I've kept my distance ever since because I didn't want to mention it and be accused of ruining her wedding weekend and I've never really known what to do about it since so we haven't seen each other (she has drunkenly asked me via text if she's done something to offend me but when I suggested going for a drink to talk she brushed me off)
AIBU??!