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to not pay for these pasties AKA Pastygate

35 replies

Babieseverywhere · 14/02/2011 12:36

Short Story
Given to much stuff when I ordered some pasties, shop wants payment, I have not got the money, nor want the pasties.

Long Story
I christened my youngest child on Sunday and as part of the buffet, I had ordered billions of finger rolls and 20 small pasties from my local bakery. FYI I didn't see examples of the small pasties in the shop just had them described to me. I paid in full then and there, and it was Lady A (area manager) who took my order but never asked for any contact details and I never knew that I should of left my name and address etc.

Went down Saturday morning before lunch like I was told to and asked for my order which Lady B loaded into my car in two massive plastic trays.

I cut, buttered and rewrapped all the bread on Saturday night but only opened one of ten boxes of pasties. It had two pasties in it, as expected when you have ten boxes and an order of 20 pasties. Mother and I thought whilst they were small they were larger than we had wanted but we decided to still use them and aimed to cut in half the following morning before setting out the buffet.

Sunday whilst setting up the buffet I start to open the boxes. OMG pasties everywhere.

Whilst the box I had opened previously had just two pasties in it but the others were filled to the top. Two of the boxes had 10 very small pasties in each, which were meant for me and these were put on the buffet. But I was left with all these excess to my order pasties.

The bakery was closed on Sunday, so all I could do was to send all the pasties still boxed and untouched by human hand back with my mother and into her fridge and get on with the christening.

I mentioned the mistake to my friend who just attending the christening, as I knew her father deals with the complaints for this Northern bakery shop and was told to return them Monday and of course I wouldn't be charged for the shop's mistake.

I went down this morning after the school run to the bakery to tell them about the error and to arrange to return these pasties to them (I need to pick them up from my mother's fridge)

After waiting in the queue for 5 minutes with the bread tray, I get to the front of the queue. I said 'I am afraid I was given the wrong order on Saturday' Lady B was very cross with me, saying 'Yes, I known , I got in a lot of trouble and those pasties need paying for.'

I explained that I only looked at one box of two pasties on Saturday and didn't realise the error until Sunday and that the order was put in my car by the staff (her in fact) it wasn't that I picked up the wrong stuff or anything.

She repeated that they needed paying for.
I explained what my friend's father said, that in cases when the shop made an error the customer would not be charged. She agreed and huffed.

I said I was surprised they didn't take contact details off customers in case of mistakes and she said the lady A should of done this.

I said I would be back shortly with the pasties and she said not to bother, she would be obliged to throw them out anyway.

Now I feel terrible, I have loads of pasties I neither wanted or paid for and I feel bad that Lady B got in trouble. My mum says I am being daft and it wasn't our fault.

I don't have spare money, I saved up for the christening it was a very cheap and cheerful do, I haven't got the money to pay for unwanted food, it would pretty much wipe out by £40 weekly food budget...so AIBU to not pay.

OP posts:
LaurieFairyCake · 14/02/2011 12:39

of course you shouldn't pay

the daft mare was huffing at herself - it just happened in your vicinity. Just ignore it, she was tres stupid.

pooka · 14/02/2011 12:39

YANBU.

I wonder whether the pasties would freeze.....

TobyLerone · 14/02/2011 12:39

YANBU. Fair enough, you feel bad, but you did everything you could and it's not your fault the lady was an idiot.

elphabadefiesgravity · 14/02/2011 12:40

YANBU. You didn;t order them, you returned them as soon as you practically could, you should not have to pay for them.

BeerTricksPotter · 14/02/2011 12:42

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Plumm · 14/02/2011 12:42

Of course you shouldn't pay - you didn't order them, want them or eat them (though I'm impressed you can make such a long post about a tray of unwanted pasties Smile)

ItsMeMo · 14/02/2011 12:42

YANBU

ShatnersBassoon · 14/02/2011 12:45

She is an idiot if she really thought you'd pay for pasties she put in your car without you knowing.

I'd love to have a big tray of pasties right now.

mumoflittlemouse · 14/02/2011 12:45

Long story
Don't you dare pay! If they are still alright to eat (and having been in the fridge, I imagine they probably are- for adults at any rate) then dish them out to all and sundry so as not to waste them.

It was absolutely not your fault, of course it wasn't and i'm afraid that in normal life, esp work, that is how it works: you cock up, you get into trouble!

Lady B was just trying to dig herself out of a hole by trying to make you pay up. The funny thing is that what she probably hasn't thought of is that if you had paid, she'd be in even MORE trouble for going against what is clearly company policy (ref your friends dad) and making a customer pay for their mistake. Tsk.

Short story

You mum is right, you are being daft, it's thier fault.
Don't pay. Tsk.

Now, pasty anyone?

Grin
KnittedBreast · 14/02/2011 12:47

dont you dare pay for their fuck ups!

mumoflittlemouse · 14/02/2011 12:48

Ahem, 'their' obv.

Blush
MardyBra · 14/02/2011 12:51

YANBU of course.

And I very much like your idea of doing a short and long version. Wish more people would do that.

Babieseverywhere · 14/02/2011 12:52

OK, I'll keep the pasties and as a bit of PIF, I'll give half to my friend whos weekly food budget is 50% of mine, no idea how she does it ! So we'll both have some pasties in the freezer for the next couple of months to buly meals out :)

I was just worried that everyone else would of checked all the boxes on Saturday and think it was partly my error.

Yes, my eyes were like how many pasties it was like the Enchanters buckets...

OP posts:
cupofteaplease · 14/02/2011 12:54

Freeze them and forget about it. Smile

mumoflittlemouse · 14/02/2011 12:56

BTW, when I very first read this OP- short version, I for some reason known only to the very inner workings of my mind thought it was going to be a post about those pasties, you know, that you can buy at Ann Summers and somehow adhere to your nipples. I have seen them in their catalog but never bought any so have no idea how they stay on.

Had to do a rather swift mental about-turn when I read the longer version of the OP Blush

Think I might have a little lie down now.....

DirtyMartini · 14/02/2011 13:00

lol mumof - it'll be because of the Ann Summers threads in Active Convos.

Doyouthinktheysaurus · 14/02/2011 13:01

YANBU, the shop woman is just trying to pass the blame.

Can you send a couple my way pleaseWink

mumoflittlemouse · 14/02/2011 13:02

I haven't even been on there! Blush

DarrellRivers · 14/02/2011 13:11

YANBU

And you have made me smile with your description of pasties everywhere and your eyes boggling.

TigerFeet · 14/02/2011 13:25

Pastygate pmsl
The magic pasty pot
You need to change your name to pastieseverywhere
:o

BuntyPenfold · 14/02/2011 13:28

Of course you don't pay for her mistake.

Eat them and forget about it.

MorticiaAddams · 14/02/2011 14:25

Of course you shouldn't pay.

Lady B is really annoyed with herself but is taking it out on you.

UrsulaBuffay · 14/02/2011 14:27

God I want a pasty after reading that.

YADNBU it was their error(s)

pmsl at 'OMG pasties everywhere. ' by the way

PatriciaHolm · 14/02/2011 14:30

Oh mumoflittlemouse I'm so glad you said that, that was my first thought too!

(joins you in the filthy minds corner..)

lospolloshermanos · 14/02/2011 14:48

the title made me chuckle,

secondly , you are in the right here