to be shocked by facebook photos

[Nettlerash]

I was just reading my news feed and noticed my neice had commented on a few of her friends pictures which were all public content. I had a quick look (me being nosy me!) and I was pretty shocked at what I saw.
This girl was posing in really skimpy clothes, bending over pushing her boobs together so you could see right down her top etc..............I had heard stuff like this happening but didnt realise it was so close to home.

I know I was just being nosy and its none of my business etc etc..........but I was surprised that anyone could just go into her pictures like that.
Is this what we mums of girls have to look forward to?

My neice is 14/15 so this girl is in the same class.

YANBU. I find it sad and shocking how young girls have been conditioned by society/marketing/media to act this way.

well if they've been accused of a rape or sexual assault and the judge (correctly - we hope) are found not guilty because the woman has wrongly accused - then they women are not rape victims . Thankfully the instances of this occuring are very small.

However, there are many men that are found "not guilty" when they shouldn't have been. What is it something like a 6% conviction rate for rape in the UK!! You can't tell me that 94% of women have made it up??

OP, you said "Normal men and boys. Did we girls and women forget that men actually have testosterone and especially younger lads will find it a lot more difficult to keep this under control when it is in their faces all the time". So perhaps not that they are turned into deranged rapists but that it's understandable if they are.

X-posted with you and BeerTricks anyway.