more of a general question rather than a AIBU....
do you still get time alone with your OH? (nights out, weekends away etc...)
we have 1 DD, she's 17 months. love her more than life, but i also love having time with just me and OH. i'm very lucky that my aunt takes her 2 nights a month (my aunt and i are very close) and my mum is good too, she will always have DD when i ask her. i don't take the piss though, i know my mum has her on life, she works etc... i only ask occassionally, and actually feel a bit cheeky asking, even though she adores DD (only grandchild)
i also still like nights out with my girlfriends, and have to be honest, i don't ever want them to stop. sometimes i think i never want another child because i know my time alone with OH and nights out with friends will be few and far between, as my mum and aunt would struggle to see to 2 children. how selfish am i?! 
so, what's it like for other mumsnetters? do you still have your own life, as in adult time with OH and nights out with friends?