Personally I get a shower every night, I wouldn't feel clean going to bed without a shower. DP on the other hand doesn't seem to care. When I first met him he only used to shower once or twice a week. He began showering every other night but I think only for my benefit. Now he's going back to his old ways and if I don't mention it, he'll happily go two or three days without a shower. He has a physical job, works in a supermarket all day and is kept active all day (not sat at check-outs) so I really think its gross that he doesn't feel the need to get a shower when he comes home. A few weeks ago I went to cuddle him in bed and he absolutely stunk. I told him so and moved away disgusted, his excuse was that he'd run out of deoderant THREE DAYS AGO!! and he'd not thought to get a shower in those three days either. He says I'm OTT but am I really?? I just think it's so gross. Last night he got changed out of his work clothes, had a shower (under protest) and put on some clean boxers. This morning he took the same pair of boxers off the bedroom floor and put them on again for work! his excuse was "I only wore them for a couple of hours last night"
So who's in the wrong then, me or him??