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to get fed up with ignorant people on trains who take up 2 seats for 1 person

48 replies

magimix · 24/01/2011 11:24

time and time again you get on a busy train and for some reason people are sitting on the aisle seat with their luggage on the window seat, now correct me if I am wrong but the luggage does'nt have a ticket, so why do people think they can hog the train seats like this, so annoying when passengers have to stand.

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mutznutz · 24/01/2011 11:26

I wouldn't blood stand because of it Shock

I can understand some people doing it when the train/bus is virtually empty cos it's easier to make sure nothing falls out.

But if there were no other seats, I'd ask them to move their luggage.

VivaLeBeaver · 24/01/2011 11:27

I do this if there are plenty of seats as the floor is always filthy. But once the train is filling up I'd put my bag on the floor. If someone didn't move it and I couldn't find a seat then I'd ask/tell them to move it. I know you shouldn't need to ask but I guess some people are thoughtless or dim.

mutznutz · 24/01/2011 11:27

bloody not blood lol Blush

JaneS · 24/01/2011 11:35

Ask them to move it, it's easy. I've heard of people who won't but never actually seen anyone who doesn't move bags when asked.

I think more fool you if you stand fuming waiting for someone to notice you.

mrsheathcliffe · 24/01/2011 11:38

Agree with LRD

TrillianAstra · 24/01/2011 11:40

I agree with LRD :)

JaneS · 24/01/2011 11:42
Grin

The great Trillian agrees with me! Wink

ViolaTricolor · 24/01/2011 11:44

I agree with LRD Grin.

bubblewrapped · 24/01/2011 11:44

I would just say "excuse me can I sit there"... (I have to say at that time in a morning I feel more like saying "shift your fecking bag you selfish twat".. )..

I certainly wouldnt stand there giving dirty looks to someones bag.

BlueFergie · 24/01/2011 11:47

Just ask them to move it ffs. Who on earth would stand rather than do this?

Hammy02 · 24/01/2011 12:13

I always ask people to move their bags so that I can sit down. Loads of people seem to just give others the evils rather than having the bottle to just ask them to move.

DuelingFanjo · 24/01/2011 12:15

"so why do people think they can hog the train seats like this"

What's the problem? Just ask them to move the bag. Confused

Rannaldini · 24/01/2011 12:17

where is the am i being unreasonable?

if you marched up to the first culprit grabbed the seat hogging bag and lobbed it off the train then yabu

if you are making an observation
meh

belledechocchipcookie · 24/01/2011 12:17

ds used to shout 'it's shocking how many people pay for their bag to have a seat!' Blush It did the job and gave the whole of the bus a laugh.

reluctanthomosapien · 24/01/2011 12:18

I used to pretty much go and sit down on top of said luggage if it wasn't moved pronto, that usually does the trick.

HeroShrew · 24/01/2011 12:18

a snidey friendly "I'm sorry, I think your bag is in my seat" usually works.

Hammy02 · 24/01/2011 12:20

If one person has kindly put their bags on the floor while another has hogged the seat with their bags, I will always go for the seat hogger. Just to cheese them off!

CarrotsAreNotTheOnlyVegetables · 24/01/2011 12:35

Tell them to move their bag. Or sit on it.

I have never had any problem getting people to shift their bags if I ask them directly.

Sometimes people get on a train when it is empty so think its Ok to put their bag down next to them then don't notice when the train fills up.

Its not usually direct rudeness, just a bit thoughtless.

minibmw2010 · 24/01/2011 12:37

I just say "excuse me" and look pointedly at the seat and generally that tends to get the bags moved. What really irks me is when people sit on the outside of a set of two seats clearly hoping no-one will sit on the inside, grrrr. Also, I refuse to ask "is someone sitting there", usually an "excuse me" is enough to get them to move for me. I figure I pay enough for the seat so if there's no one there at the time, its my seat.

weedle · 24/01/2011 12:48

What's worse is when you're in a 4 seater on a fairly empty train and some fuckwit person comes and sits directly opposite you so your knees are touching!

Why? Why would you do that?

ViolaTricolor · 24/01/2011 12:55

I also hate knee-spreading men, whose arses may well be contained by their allotted seat, but whose taste for scrotal ventilation encroaches on my leg room and on my brain.

togarama · 24/01/2011 12:58

Is this really a major problem? I just ask politely and people always move their bag. Usually they're just facing the other way and haven't noticed the train filling up.

WimpleOfTheBallet · 24/01/2011 13:01

Knee spreading men get my pointy elbows in their ribs! It's the same ones who think the arm rest is ALL theirs...I once said "Half each mate...you've got my bit too" after a bit of jostling...he looked like this Shock

belledechocchipcookie · 24/01/2011 13:02

You've obviously been on the Derby to Nottingham train weedle. Wink

OpenAmyrillis · 24/01/2011 13:09

YABU, just ask them to move the bag for goodness sake! Its the people who practically set up camp on the 4 seater table arrangements that get my goat! The other day I saw a woman and daughter with bags piled on the outside seats, and a black labrador under the table! They were both eating Burger King and stinking the carriage out- ugh. Now thats being unreasonable.

...must confess though I am a short arse so if theres a seat empty next to me I'd rather leave my bag there than have to madly clamber up to the luggage rail on a moving train before I miss my stop! Blush