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To apologise... Change my approach and find a new name!

117 replies

MsKLo · 21/01/2011 17:54

Sorry folks for being trollish and getting into bunfights

Are these things forgiven? Can an OP like me move on from troll like behaviour?!

Got a new approach and thinking about a new name to go with it Smile

AIBU to think that bygones can be bygones?!

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ChippingInSmellyCheeseFreak · 21/01/2011 18:28

MadameDefarge - sorry the Yoda thing has gone right over my head ?!

JamieLeeCurtis · 21/01/2011 18:30

Chipping

"I also find you quite 'variable' some days you seem quite normal and some days seem out to state black is white"

wise you are

spikeycow · 21/01/2011 18:30

You're funny. You called me Spikeyidiot Grin

maryz · 21/01/2011 18:30

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JamieLeeCurtis · 21/01/2011 18:31

and :" there's nothing wrong with being quite 'Oh fuck off' it's a healthy attitude on here to have"

wizardora · 21/01/2011 18:31

Oh god it will all kick off again before long, probably on this here thread!

You meet real polar opposites on here, just be confident in your own views but open minded enough to take others on board.

You are no more sweary towards posters than anyone else.. it is a million times worse to be on the receiving end of some smug patrionising arsehole anyday!

Portofino · 21/01/2011 18:31

I would say that if you are arguing about your own truly held opinions and not just putting stuff up there for a fight, then go ahead.

pagwatch · 21/01/2011 18:33

Tbh i don't have a clue who you are. If you want people to perceive you differently then just act differently.
I don't think people on here hold grudges.

But if your nature is to annoy people then you will continue so to do.

nkvd · 21/01/2011 19:01

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TyraG · 21/01/2011 19:06

I've seen you around before, never bothered me any and I agree with Portofino.

I've been thinking about changing my name as well, but mainly because I'm jealous of all the really cute and witty names and all I did was use my name (LAME). I'll have to think of something creative.

MsKLo · 21/01/2011 19:10

If I change my name it will be another take on K-Lo (as in JLo lol) as no, don't want to hide away from me

JamieLee I am regretfull of the way I have done some things of course I am - but I think it is ok to add the 'but' as sometimes b people on here can be sooooo sanctimonious (yep, I love that word...)

Spikeycow - you are lovely - I remember apologising to you personally on another thread! I like you you ballsy lady you!

I do have some fairly strong bf opinions yes, but it was never ever my intention to come across as putting down ff'ers and it annoyed me that there were people who said I did that.

My tone, which in some cases was meant to be tongue in cheek! Has come across as arsey too
But can see how it can be like that too

Its my fiery Italian genes! Grin

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MsKLo · 21/01/2011 19:13

I will definately not try to be someone I am not.

Fair point mary but I didn't mean it like that. I have been arsey and don't like that but was just saying I am not the only one!

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DublinMammy · 21/01/2011 19:20

I'm just sorry I missed your earlier arseiness.... From the sounds of it, don't change a thing certainly not your name. There are a lot of people on MN with strong opinions and a lot of others roll over for them, don't roll over! Go MsKLo, Go!

BeerTricksPotter · 21/01/2011 19:26

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TheDevilAndTheDeepBlueSea · 21/01/2011 19:33

Oh no, don't change! I've seen you around here a lot, and I like your style Wink

duchesse · 21/01/2011 19:33

I think you're doing exactly the right thing to become a valued and memorable MNetter. Unlike me who has been here 5 years and never passed across anyone's radar.

MsKLo · 21/01/2011 19:46
Smile
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MsKLo · 21/01/2011 19:49

awwwwwee

ta beartricks

that was nice of ya!

I am getting bored with the name i gave myself - a take on J-Lo but now I dont like it!

I have another name in mind but will people still know me if I change to it as it is so different - maybe I should keep the KLo bit in the name so people do know it is me - the troublemaker me! Wink

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MsKLo · 21/01/2011 19:51

oh and I have never meant to deliberately upset people but have said a few things that have been stupid and responded in a twatty way that I don't like!

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 21/01/2011 19:53

Hmm... it's Friday night and time for a ruck?

If you're not changing your name noticeably then what's the point in changing it?

You just wanted a little thread, didn't you. :O

mozette · 21/01/2011 19:58

I have came across your name and noticed that on some threads you are normal but in others you are a bit of a cow.

One instance that sticks in my head is that you agreed and sympathised with the OP then you realised that you had had a previous ruck with her and changed your mind - that makes you look a bit mental and grudge bearing

MsKLo · 21/01/2011 20:03

yes i know mozette! I was mega annoyed at that person for suggesting a thread that someone had done having a go at formula feeders was really me in disguise when it was so not me and not something i would ever write but it was wrong of me to have a ruck

I had pmt!

sorry altinkum!

I am not mental, honest! Just a fiery Italian! Grin

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KirstyAllsoap · 21/01/2011 20:14

I often agree with you and like the fact that you have a strong opinion.

Have you got a telling off or something today?

scottishmummy · 21/01/2011 20:17

why did you purposefully wind folk up?you dont need anyone else forgiveness.isnt about contrition is about not goading folk just because you could

but on other hand dont actually think anyone sensible holds grudge or gripe.so i wouldnt sweat that

Serendippy · 21/01/2011 20:20

I thought I was quite a nice, reasonable person til I started posting on MN. Now realise I am a judgemental, argumentative, sweary caaaaaah. But tis who I am, no point changing.

If you don't do anything on purpose to upset or rile people, everything else is just your nature and attitude. Can't change that.

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