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to want to ditch a book, given as a gift to ds, that makes me cry..

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radiohelen · 20/01/2011 20:38

It's called Love you forever by Robert Munsch and it's a Canadian classic.
It's a great book. I can't read it without falling apart and crying like a baby.
Should I hide it? Give it away? Just leave it on the shelf until ds can read it for himself... I think that might actually be worse - listening to him read it I may end up face down in a tissue box surrounded by biscuits and choccy wrappers.

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PinkPussyCat · 20/01/2011 21:48

Wish I hadn't opened this thread, have just watched BuzzLightBeer's youtube link and am now sobbing

GAHSad

mummyosaurus · 20/01/2011 21:53

I somehow bought a book by accident, on Amazon, called "seven for a secret" it is about a grandparent dying. I wept and wept.

I have put it away upstairs, I assume it must be for reading when a grandparent does die and you need to explain about it. Not sure it would really help with me crying as I read. Anyway, put your book up for a bit and see if you can read it in a few months maybe?

Stickman makes me sad as well.

beanandspud · 20/01/2011 22:02

Love you forever has me in tears every time - I have hidden it now as I can't read it to DS without blubbing. OH thinks it's a load of old sentimental mush and refuses to read it.

And yes, the woman is a bit odd.

researchinmotion · 20/01/2011 22:05

Ok, I looked up this book on Amazon as I'd never heard of it.

The reviews alone have made me blub!

cath476 · 20/01/2011 22:06

Oh my word! DH thinks I have lost the plot! I just googled and cried over Amazon then looked on you tube and listened to the author read the full story. In my defence I have a 6 week old ds and 2 big boys who are growing up soooooooooooooo fast - I think I am hormonal and sleep-deprived!!!

Icoulddoitbetter · 20/01/2011 22:10

I too just read the precis on Amazon and I'm sobbing like a baby! I've always struggled with stuff like thins, and I'm far worse now I have have DS. DH is going to have to do all the reading methinks!

CaptainNancy · 20/01/2011 22:10

I cannot read "The Little Mermaid" (Hans Christian Andersen) to DD... I cannot get over the prince abandoning her when she became human the bastard but cannot even begin to explain to DD (4) why. Sad

trixymalixy · 20/01/2011 22:13

I knew this post would be about this book. Canadian relatives sent me this book when DS was born and I have hidden it as I just blub my way through it!!!

YANBU

mankyscotslass · 20/01/2011 22:13

Love you forever has me in tears, my Canadian aunt sent it to me when I had DS.

Goodbye Mog is a heart breaker too. But DD loves it...at least now she is old enoigh to read it herself!

moosemama · 20/01/2011 22:16

Guess How Much I Love You used to make me cry eery time when I had my pfb. Still does, but he's not so keen on me reading it to him now he's nearly 9. Hmm

We have Love You Forever, but I have to admit the whole, bus ride bit, does bother me.

When dd was born, first daughter after two sons, I discovered . I absolutely love it and it makes me well up every time, whilst at the same time scaring the pants off me when I think about the huge responsibility involved in raising my dcs to be strong, independent etc.

abdnhiker · 20/01/2011 22:19

I'm Canadian and we got given two copies of this book when we had ds1 and I've never been able to read it to him because it's just too sad. I'm glad I'm not the only one.

hairfullofsnakes · 20/01/2011 22:20

Do I need to read it?

PigTail · 20/01/2011 22:26

Oh, you can't get rid of it! I only cried the first 50 times I read it, and now I quite enjoy it. I tell my kids when they are grown up I will drive across town with a ladder strapped to the roof of my car. Grin

It's a great bedtime story when the DC have been shits you've had a tough day.

Lakota · 20/01/2011 22:27

My voice breaks every time I read 'Dogger', when the sister offers up her teddy bear to get Dogger back, and more recently at 'Baby Brains' "and through the crowds of camermen and photographers, Mrs Brains came running"

trixymalixy · 20/01/2011 22:29

The way the mum drives across town with the ladder to climb through her grown up son's window is really creepy!

domeafavour · 20/01/2011 22:34

it's so sad.
even DS thinks it's sad, he's 3. Although he thinks that the boy will keep on growing to be A GIANT!!

drinkyourmilk · 20/01/2011 22:45

'seven for a secret' - holy cow. I've nannied for 14 years and have held it together through all of the classics. I tried to read this book to a charge and had to tell him i couldnt read it anymore because it was making me so sad! When i finished for the day i actually sat and sobbed for about 5 mins in the car. Heartbraking - because the love is SO apparent.

hairfullofsnakes · 20/01/2011 22:51

Oh dear, I have just ordered it and some other ones amazon recommends too...

Deciduousblonde · 20/01/2011 22:53

My daughters favourite story is 'The Happy Prince'

There gets to a stage where I can't talk for blubbing. I think she now gets me to read it for her on purpose.

BurningBuntingFlipFlop · 20/01/2011 23:02

A mother held her new baby and very slowly rocked him back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And while she held him, she sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.

The baby grew. He grew and he grew and he grew. He grew until he was two years old, and he ran all around the house. He pulled all the books off the shelves. He pulled all the food out of the refrigerator and he took his mother's watch and flushed it down the toilet. Sometimes his mother would say, "this kid is driving me CRAZY!"

But at night time, when that two-year-old was quiet, she opened the door to his room, crawled across the floor, looked up over the side of his bed; and if he was really asleep she picked him up and rocked him back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. While she rocked him she sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.

The little boy grew. He grew and he grew and he grew. He grew until he was nine years old. And he never wanted to come in for dinner, he never wanted to take a bath, and when grandma visited he always said bad words. Sometimes his mother wanted to sell him to the zoo!

But at night time, when he was asleep, the mother quietly opened the door to his room, crawled across the floor and looked up over the side of the bed. If he was really asleep, she picked up that nine-year-old boy and rocked him back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And while she rocked him she sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.

The boy grew. He grew and he grew and he grew. He grew until he was a teenager. He had strange friends and he wore strange clothes and he listened to strange music. Sometimes the mother felt like she was in a zoo!

But at night time, when that teenager was asleep, the mother opened the door to his room, crawled across the floor and looked up over the side of the bed. If he was really asleep she picked up that great big boy and rocked him back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. While she rocked him she sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.

That teenager grew. He grew and he grew and he grew. He grew until he was a grown-up man. He left home and got a house across town. But sometimes on dark nights the mother got into her car and drove across town. If all the lights in her son's house were out, she opened his bedroom window, crawled across the floor, and looked up over the side of his bed. If that great big man was really asleep she picked him up and rocked him back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And while she rocked him she sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.

Well, that mother, she got older. She got older and older and older. One day she called up her son and said, "You'd better come see me because I'm very old and sick." So her son came to see her. When he came in the door she tried to sing the song. She sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always...

But she couldn't finish because she was too old and sick. The son went to his mother. He picked her up and rocked her back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And he sang this song:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my Mommy you'll be.

When the son came home that night, he stood for a long time at the top of the stairs. Then he went into the room where his very new baby daughter was sleeping. He picked her up in his arms and very slowly rocked her back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. And while he rocked her he sang:

I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living
my baby you'll be.

twirlymum · 20/01/2011 23:02

I'm welling up thinking of No Matter What Sad

PigTail · 20/01/2011 23:08

Magicmayhem, that is soooo Sad!

My copy ws given to me buy a friend as a baby gift when I was a very new mum.

Inside she had written "DS1 is so lucky to have you as his mum." 12 years later I realise that is the kind of slush people write in baby cards, etc, but then I was really, really touched. Smile

randomama · 20/01/2011 23:12

Burning :( I'm yowling my eyes out here. agh!

The one that gets me every time with DS is The Lorax. I must've read it a hundred times and I still totally breakdown towards the end.

Lost and Found is another killer.

And don't get me started on the Velveteen Rabbit.

shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2011 23:19

Keep it pleeeeeeeeeeease!! Smile

My parents brought it back from Canada for me when they had been on holiday there - you piggin' Canadians have a lot to answer for Grin

I read it to my 3 sons....then after a 16 year gap read it to DS4. I sob every time and when my sons got older they thought it was hysterical!!

Then when my DGS was born I handed it to my son who was then 26. When my only grandchild was about 1 years old my son took him up to bed and read it to him.

About an hour later DS1 rang me sobbing.....Oh Mum I have just sobbed my eyes out reading this to my little lad. you can have the damn book back!!!

Its still on DGS's bookshelf and his Daddy still reads it to him 2 years on!!

TheSleepFairy · 20/01/2011 23:32

Lost & found is beautifull.
I love you so much is a favourite here, and we have baby brains on loan with the library but haven't read it yet.

What is no matter what like/about?

I'll love you forever only made me well twice - 1st when he held his mother & 2nd when I read the youtube comments about the song being for the authors dead babies Sad