to be pissed off with our intefering neighbour

[mamasmissionimpossible]

So today our 3 year old dd throws a massive tantrum this afternoon (screaming, shouting, the works!). Which I realise is normal behaviour for a 3 year old, if very wearing.

About 20 mins into the tantrum we get a knock at the door from the old biddy nice lady who lives upstairs.

She is complaining about the noise coming from my dd and saying she has been listening to it for an hour. Which is total rubbish, as I looked at the clock and it was about 20mins.

AIBU to be pissed off and think mind your business. I need to think of some good comebacks in case she decides to darken my door again!

yanbu in your reaction though

Be proactive, knock on her door with a cake and thank her for checking up on you.
Let her know that you were stressed at that point but you are grateful for a neighbour that is concerned about you and your daughters wellbeing.
She might become a friend. She is less likely to become an enemy.