to snarl at my DS's Bullies?

[finallyfree]

My DS is 14 has asd and add and has been systematically bullied at school. Twice he has been assaulted outside school (quite badly) School wont do anything bcos police are investigating so when i see these nasty little boys i cannot help but to give them the evil and make them feel generally uncomfortable. I never verbally threaten them. What makes it worse is that some of these kids are 16 and 17!!! my friend says i should stop "intimidating" them because they are children but my response is "if they cant take it dont dish it". If i found out my DC's were bullying i would certainly sort them out. Is my behaviour reasonable, unreasonable or justified?

At 12 my oldest Son was being bullied, I told the ringleaders mother if it happened once more she would be walking with a limp, I also told the boy (in a full playground before school) "I would rip his fucking throat out".

A couple of days later I received a note from the Deputy Head asking if I would see him, at the meeting he tried to tell me I was wrong so I mentioned the local paper I would be calling after the meeting, not another word was said.

YANBU in fact YANgiving them what they deserve, a taste of their own medicine by someone bigger than them (although I doubt you are)
Bullying makes my blood boil

You need to get em cornered and lay right into them at the very least. I would be spitting blood.

There is something I have seen that could help children and/or parents. It's a device that automatically switches on when activated and records what's being said to the person being bullied. The recording is transmitted to a centre. It's all from a community interest company set up for people who are at their wit's end. It's called DASH Support. I could look out the website details if you think it could be useful.