Took monitor out of DS 3.8 room. Am I too early?

[WannabeNigella]

I kind of know (hope) I'm not but need some reassurance.

DS is 3.8yrs and had baby monitor in room till now but we have another dc due in a couple of months and we want to use monitor for them so I've took it out of DS's room tonight so it isn't a straight swap if you know what I mean.

He would get me if he wanted me but sometimes in the middle of the night if he wants something he just softly repeats my name over and over and I won't hear it without monitor and I feel guilty.

First night tonight!

We never used a monitor. Time to drop it for your son, and use it if you need to, for the new arrival.

I never used a baby monitor really. I used one once when we moved from a first floor 1 bed flat on one level. Used it for one night and realised that i would hear DS if he cried (he was 6 months at the time)
So no YANBU

Actually wannabeNigella you do not specify in your thread title, years or months "Took monitor out of DS 3.8 room. Am I too early?"

On the other hand, I quite like being called "alibubbless"!