to wonder why some of my mummy friends are so secretive?

[poopsicle]

On girlie night I overheard my friend telling another mate about how great the playgroup xmas party was that she and her DS went to.

She's a first time mum and I often invite her to baby activities, music classes, etc. Wasn't aware she went to any groups, she has never mentioned. I'm not an overbearing mum, if anything try and be as social as possible..

I've known other mummies do this too, be secretive about classes or other mummy get togethers they do. I'm quite open so can't understand this...is a competitive thing?

AIBU?

I am dreading this aspect of becoming a mum - just because you have a baby and someone else has a baby does that mean you are inextricably bound? I've found that when people I know with babies do have get togethers no one really gives a shit about each other anyway as they are too busy running around after their own little darlings.