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to think that one born every minute live is pretty unethical

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carriedaxmaspudding · 23/12/2010 21:01

i dont really agree with it being on live.

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weedle · 24/12/2010 15:05

Channel 4 I think...

BrandyButterPie · 24/12/2010 15:08

Right, so if I don't watch channel 4 or any of it's offshoots, I'll be ok?

onimolap · 24/12/2010 15:16

I agree the hospital is responsible for granting permissions.

The idea that the onus is on a labouring woman to tell a crew not to film is just vile.

Highlander · 24/12/2010 16:01

I've already commented on the TV section - I think this programme is just ghastly, tasteless voyeuristic TV at its worst. To reduce childbirth to 'entertainment' is just beyond words.

I personally don't understand why anyone would want to watch it, pre-recored or not.

togarama · 24/12/2010 16:28

I've watched births on YouTube and found them very useful prior to DD's birth. I understand why people want to watch births.

However, I still don't understand this kind of TV show.

itsawonderfuldarleneconnorlife · 24/12/2010 17:03

I think it's nice to watch calm, peaceful, natural home or water births.

And showing an ELCS is surely not much different from showing other major surgery?

What I dont like seeing are the horrid, over-medicalised typical hospital births with needles, internals, screaming etc.

The 'live' births will only be multiparous women, who're ultra low risk and have had easy other births.

I would actually find it reassuring to have a live film crew there. A lot of horror stories are due to medical malpractice rather than birth itself, and there's definately less chance of that with video evidence.

SunOverStars · 24/12/2010 17:03

children oneborn? Did you have twins?

EmmaBemma · 24/12/2010 17:16

I loved the series of this - I was pregnant with my second baby and found it so uplifting and strangely comforting too. I didn't think it was voyeuristic at all. As for people moaning about "is this entertainment in this day and age" etc, well - I'd rather watch a newborn's first minutes than the Queen's speech or Delboy falling through a bar for the gazillionth time.

WriterofDreams · 24/12/2010 17:22

I'm due tomorrow and I'm going to the PAH. I've been harassed non stop since I was about 30 weeks about being on this programme and it has pissed me off no end. At every single antenatal appointment the midwife has asked me about it. I was sent a letter, asked about it at my scan, and the worst of all was when I waiting with my DH to go to my 36 week MW appointment and a researcher for the show approached me to shove it down my throat for the millionth time. I told her right away that I didn't want to be on the show but she just kept on talking about it, until thankfully I was saved by the midwife.

To be honest the prospect of going to hospital and perhaps bumping into a tv crew has really set me on edge. Surely I should be able to go the hospital knowing no matter what state I'm in - crying, leaking waters, scared - I won't have to worry about being on national tv? I don't know how it's all going to work and whether I can avoid being shown - I mean if it's live and I turn up in the hallway what happens then? Luckily nothing seems to be happening at the moment so I'm sure I won't actually be in tonight or tomorrow but it just makes me quite angry that I'm actually wishing to go overdue so I don't have to deal with this.

EmmaBemma · 24/12/2010 17:32

That sounds dreadful, Writerofdreams - I'm sorry. FWIW, they can't so much as show even your face on telly without your written consent, as far as I understand it, so you won't be accidentally on there even if you do go into labour this eve.

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WriterofDreams · 24/12/2010 18:56

I know it's very unlikely that I'll be filmed without my consent, the issue is more that I even have to worry about it. I watched the series and I really liked it, I felt it helped me prepare for the birth, I just think the whole idea of doing it live is absolutely daft and not fair on people like me who don't want to be involved.

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DaisySteiner · 24/12/2010 19:34

Considering how seriously the NHS (IME) takes confidentiality and consent I am gobsmacked that a hospital has allowed film crews inside, particularly for a 'live' program.

I'm also pretty surprised that any HCP with a registration to protect agrees to be filmed - apart from the potential for footage to be used against you, I find it difficult to believe that having a film crew hanging around wouldn't be a distraction in an emergency situation. I certainly don't fancy having to convince a court of that. Although I'm sure if the worst happened the individual would be backed up by their hospital

BearCrimble · 24/12/2010 20:47

So funny they are desperately trying to fill the time by showing an empty room. I'm sure the fear of being filmed has delayed the labours of everyone who's due.

WriterofDreams · 24/12/2010 22:20

I know Bear, I did get a bit of malicious glee from how shit it was. But what could they expect? Did they really think labouring mothers would want to be filmed live???

MissAnthrope · 24/12/2010 22:45

I was in labour with dd in 2006 when they were filming a live birth programme for channel five at the Queen's Medical Centre.

I can't understand how it is entertaining in the slightest and repeatedly less than politely declined to take part.

I'm more than capable of embarassing myself on a daily basis without pooing on live television Xmas Grin

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