"There is NO aggressive advertising in the UK, yes we have follow on milks (not illegal) we dont have any advertisements in the NHS or are the MW allowed to give advice on formula (some do lucky) etc... "
Point by point:
How can advertising not be considered 'aggressive' when it's 1) taking out full page ads in professional journals. 2) taking out large numbers of full page ads in high selling mother and baby magazines 3)making unsolicited approaches to new parents through social networking sites encouraging them to accept direct marketing by joining 'mums clubs' 4) sending reps out into shops to promote the brand directly to parents 5) running expensive ads on national tv 6) promoting directly to health professionals.
The Cow and Gate rep who visits our local hospital used to regularly dump piles of leaflets promoting cow and gate products in the parent craft room where the breastfeeding classes are run. 
"you seem to have take the attitude that people who FF dont research what milk is suitable to their child, or make no informed knowledgeable choice in choosing to feed their child that brand etc... I cant certainly tell you that from MY own experience that's incorrect."
How can they make decisions based on reliable, independent evidence comparing these products when this evidence doesn't exist?
It doesn't exist!
You had the advice of a consultant, who hopefully recommended a particular formula for your baby based on good quality research.
What about other mothers who don't have access to this?
"So "we" whoever "we" is...know every underprivileged persons grasp of the issue do "we"?"
Oh come on - don't try to distort the argument. Those bodies who are responsible for policy in health education and promotion don't believe that 'every' underprivileged persons grasp of the issue is inadequate. Of course you know this - you're just trying to make me out to be unreasonable and prejudiced. But they do know that rates of breastfeeding initiation and continuation are lowest in those groups, and that ignorance about the basic physiology of breastfeeding is also poor in those groups.
"Sounds like "we" assume those people have nothing else to worry about...such as getting to work,
Interestingly enough, breastfeeding initiation rates are highest among those mothers who are most likely to return to work after the birth and lowest among those mothers who've never worked. Most mothers in the UK who do return to work after giving birth return after 6 months, when the vast majority of mothers are no longer breastfeeding anyway.
"dealing with being a single parent (especially in the case of many underprivileged Mothers)
Is the implication here that breastfeeding is a less logical choice for single mothers? I would have thought that it would be a more logical choice, given that they may have less money and have to do all the night feeds themselves?
"and that they actually don't need or want to be educated about something which is a natural bodily fuction."
Women do need to know how breastfeeding works if they don't haven't had exposure to normal breastfeeding in their day to day life. And there's very good evidence that antenatal breastfeeding education improves initiation and continuation rates, which is how the NHS can justify their costs in offering it.
"Pushing the issue does not persuede peope to try it...."
Sorry - but you're wrong. Breastfeeding promotion campaigns have increased bf initiation rates in this country significantly in the past few years. And part of the promotion of breastfeeding is educating people about the drawbacks of using formula milk.
"if people want to then they will".
Yes - and they're more likely to want to use formula if they're exposed to a barrage of marketing persuading them that using this product will promote their baby's health and development, which is what formula advertising does.
"no matter how much "we" get on our high horses."
..... ho hum. Was waiting for the accusation that those of us who are arguing for restrictions on formula advertising believe that breastfeeding is somehow morally superior.
Wait for it...... wait for it........