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Women only buy music because of how artist/band looks.

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marantha · 13/12/2010 13:39

AIBU to think that the looks of an artist/band is a major factor when it comes to the music buying of (most) women?
I have to say that looks/sex appeal does not enter into it for men- yes, they may feel Kylie is v. v. attractive with a nice bottom, but there is no way they'd buy her album on the basis of that.
The X Factor last night made it this clear to me- Matt Cardle is a handsome, pleasant enough seeming guy certainly but he is very karaoke, isn't he? (I am assuming that the majority of his voters were female) James Blunt is the same.
I reckon that women buy into looks when it comes to musical purchasing and not particular talent. AIBU?

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Tortington · 13/12/2010 13:54

I LISTEN TO A LOT OF ROCK MUSIC opps soz caps

and most of them are munters i woouldn't shag em with yours

GlynistheMincePie · 13/12/2010 13:54

marantha

I never denied her talent...i just wondered when DH listened to the CDs Xmas Wink

AbsofCroissant · 13/12/2010 13:54

but then, I did used to have a MAJOR crush on Michael Stipe, so I can't really comment

Tortington · 13/12/2010 13:54

men chose the cars surely.

kreecherlivesupstairs · 13/12/2010 13:55

Am I a couple of the posters here. I adore Elvis Costello, have a couple of Proclaimers CD's and rather like the Pogues. That Shane Magowan. Who wouldn't want to shag the skin off him?
OP, YABVVVVVU

FunkySnowSkeleton · 13/12/2010 13:55

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thumbplumpuddingwitch · 13/12/2010 13:55

Er, how many 12yos do you think post on MN?
Xmas Hmm

I don't know any adult woman who buys music on the basis of how the band looks.

What a stupid assumption.

MollysChambers · 13/12/2010 13:55
Xmas Biscuit
otchayaniye · 13/12/2010 13:55

Don't get me started on Beethoven. Phwoar

hogfather · 13/12/2010 13:56

ah I had a lovely black and white poster of Axl Rose when I was a teenager .... spent hours drooling over it Blush

narkypuffin · 13/12/2010 13:56

"I don't think I'm being that unreasonable-look at the boy bands we have. Anyway, I mean it as applying to a lot of women, not all."

Er, pre-pubescent girls and teenagers aren't women.

AbsofCroissant · 13/12/2010 13:57

Hummina hummina

Tortington · 13/12/2010 13:57

axl was hot though

kenobi · 13/12/2010 13:58

Duelling Fanjo, you must try dude blog.mtviggy.com/2009/09/28/under-the-covers-devendra-banhart-on-phoenix/

I do like a nice beard. That's why I listen to Pink.

GlynistheMincePie · 13/12/2010 13:58

MollysChambers, you have reminded me though, I would go and see KOL again, even if I didn't like their music Xmas Shock

*goes to paddle in the shallow end

OTheHugeManatee · 13/12/2010 13:58

What kenobi said. Boy bands is kind of a different thing, because that's mostly about a manufactured experience designed to cater for what tweens wish the boys they knew were like, so of course it involves looks. The music is secondary.

FWIW I don't think I pay much attention to what people look like when I choose which music to buy, but that might be because I like folk music and folk musicians are generally a bit funny-looking. Grin

kenobi · 13/12/2010 13:59

Try again!

Duelling Fanjo, you must try s-devendra-banhart-on-phoenix/ this dude

I do like a nice beard. That's why I listen to Pink.

hogfather · 13/12/2010 13:59

oh and dont forget that poster of the Red Hot Chilli Peppers in the nude with only their socks on!!

comixminx · 13/12/2010 13:59

Utter rubbish. Unless what you really mean is than a lot of men are more deeply into music as a part of their lifestyle that a lot of women (because muso-collecting-bean-counting tendencies are found in men more often).

OTheHugeManatee · 13/12/2010 14:00

hogfather I think I had the same post of Axl Rose when I was 13 .

Have you seen what he looks like these days, though? I'm convinced there's a very good reason he's never been seen in the same room as Ricky Gervais.

KalokiMallow · 13/12/2010 14:00

YABU, obviously.

I couldn't tell you what most of the bands I listen to look like.

sarah293 · 13/12/2010 14:01

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hogfather · 13/12/2010 14:03

OTHM he was sat on a box looking all lovely before the beard came along and we both got old

narkypuffin · 13/12/2010 14:04

Oh, I forgot the main way of launching boy bands pre x-factor. Gigs in gay clubs. Tripping over women in there.

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