I have name changed.
Have a 'friend' who I fell out with in the summer.To cut a long story short I was 2 weeks away from having ds2 and had a 2 yr old.I went to visit her and she thought it was 'funny' after a stressful tube journey not to tell me her new address.So she wanted me to wait at a tube station and in her own time she would tell me her address as I was visiting her and her new baby(I had lovely gifts etc).
I waited with a bored 2 year old and she never got back to me so I went straight home and took him to the park.She sent her a message saying how rude she was to make a heavily pregnant person wait for her etc.
She then gave me weeks of abuse-swearing/nasty nasty things that I won't repeat(because I dared tell her she was rude).
Since then I have had ds2 and she told me she was missing me and sorry for how things went etc.
I had had a large glass of wine and stupid soft me responded.Although I have kept her at 'arms length'.My OH was LIVID that I got back in touch with her.
I decided to give her another chance.So she came round my house and her ds1 was calling me and me ds1 awful names and hit my ds1 in the face(she pretended it didn't happen).
He also jumped on my furniture etc.
I have been around hers and it was awful.
Anyway the other day she told me that I am always 'too busy' for her so(walkover)me asked her around for lunch.
Last night OH went to the shops to buy lovely food.Today she didn't bother to turn up.No text.Nothing.
I know nothings wrong as she has been on facebook all day.
Anyway what my point is is I feel I should tell her she's rude but she made the last 2 weeks of my pregnancy hell.All day she would send me abuse and I even threatened to report her to the police(I didn't).
People at my old job warned me of her and I never listened.
It makes me feel sick as we live so close and therefor go to the same shops and when I fell out with her in the summer she would shout abuse in the street infront of her dc and mine and I just wanted to die.
She reported my hairdresser to the SS because she used her binoculars to see that she had let her dc sleep for 2 hours in a car seat rather than a cot.(After a long car journey).
That's the kind of person she is.Oh and I'm awful because my child doesn't wear Ralph Lauren clothes.
I must me crazy to let her in my life and I think I must be unreasonable for doing so.