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AIBU?

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I'm really annoyed about this but WIBU to e-mail the headmaster of DD's school or not?

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roomonthebroom · 06/12/2010 15:28

DD's school is closed today because of the snow. The school has sent an e-mail to all of the parents with an attachment containing work sheets for the children to complete at home. There is one for each year group and they are similar to the usual homework exercises sent.

My DD is in Primary 1 so it's a bit of colouring in, but there are different sheets for each year group. For the P6 children there is a worksheet with words which they need to copy and then write a sentence for 4 of the words of thier choosing. However, there is a second P6 worksheet with the names of 2 specific children on it who have been given much easier words as they obviously have some additional learning needs.

AIBU in thinking that if there was going to be differentiated homework the school should have e-mailed this to the parent's of the 2 children affected, rather than send the same message to the whole of the junior school which pretty much says 'in case you hadn't noticed, children X and Y need additional learning support'.

Although my child is not affected I feel that I want to e-mail the headmaster to point this out. Should I, or should I just get over it? It's just made me feel a bit uncomfortable about the way the school may treat those with ASN.

FWIW I'm a former teacher and would never have singled a child out in this way, but don't know if this is 'normal' behaviour.

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roomonthebroom · 07/12/2010 19:25

Thanks Sauvignon

The best part is that we had a similar homework e-mail sent today for children who couldn't make it to school because of the snow and it didn't have a seperate one for the two children who need differentiated work. I'm pleased!

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Galena · 07/12/2010 19:43

(Haven't read the whole thread so sorry if this has already been mentioned) Many schools use ParentMail to send emails out to everyone who has registered. ParentMail, as far as I am aware can only send emails to classes, yeargroups or whoel school. I'm not sure you can say 'Send this email to everyone EXCEPT X and Y and this email to those 2 parents.'

I guess they may just have done what they could which is send the same email to everyone and just made the filename different for those 2 children so they didn't panic when faced with the normal P6 work.

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