or is he?

[CandlestickMaker]

Currently in talks with exP over DS1.

He is asking for overnight contact out of the blue. So far this year he has seen him during the day only about 6/7 times.

I have said yes, but on condition that he sticks to arranged contact once a fortnight for the next 4 times, and then overnight contact can begin.

Thats the first AIBU.

Because of this he has decided to cut maintanence payments from £200 per month to £20. He is self employed and CSA no help. He is being unreasonable, right?

Fingers crossed he sticks to his word, well done! that he would use your DS like that.

Fingers crossed - let us know how it goes.

I'm putting money on him coming to collect DS for an overnight and not bringing any money.... but then, I'm cynical! (& suspicious why he suddenly wants over nights).

It did cross my mind that he might just not bring him back until the morning. Hopefully he's not that stupid though.

I will be marching to court if he pulls a stunt like that!