to come off all contraception

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even though oh has not had the all clear from his vasectomy operation

Unless there's a really good reason to come off it, why would you take the risk?

I hate the pill...and refuse it...so if you are using that then YANBU and have my blessings! Don't know about your OH's though!

How long ago did he have the operation? But yes, YWBU if you come off contraception without the all-clear. Why would you want to take such a risk now? Did you not agree with the vasectomy? Would you secretly like another baby?

i have the implonon "rod" and since december 09 have had 2 weeks off having a period

oh had the op early august this year

Why?

YABU, you are assuming that the op has been successful and they aren?t always.
And it isn?t always surgical error, there are occasions where for what ever reason the vas deferens rejoin, and it only takes one tiny emmy miney sperm???.searching its way through , a bit like a Chilean Miner, only even more determined

I wouldn't! I know a couple of people who have been caught out on this one, and it can lead to major resentment and upset

Have you talked about it with your DH?

i just want this bleeding to stop, i really hate it.

not yet, i wanted to know if i was or noy BU 1st

Get rid of the implant, but use condoms. :)

Do the last two questions OldLadyKnowsBest asked have a bearing on anything?

It's uncomfortable, but I'd rather have a period for a month than be pregnant for 9 months and looking after another child for 28 years when I didn't really want another.

It took six months for my DH to get the 'all clear' (had to test x 2 3 months apart.) My sis told me it took 9 months for her DH. You don't want any more DC so why risk it for the sake of a few weeks. I'm thinking the same as Old Lady - are you hoping for a 'happy accident'?

Yes - stop this contraception and use another. Condoms must be the way to go.

Hormonal contraception can be a bitch. Whats wrong with condoms?

I hope i dont offend anyone, but if i got a positive pregnancy test, i wouuld not continue with the pregnancy.

i just want he bleeding to stop...which kind of answers my own question

is there any latex free condoms ????

You can get latex free condoms, yes.

Go off that implant, you must be fit to pull your hair out at this stage, but do use condoms. Don't risk it.

Here - loving the name blushing buyer!

to prevent pregnany, i will use a female condom on top of a male one.

it never crossed my mind to use a condom as i have a latex allergy and i have only had 1 sexual partner who i am still with

TheFallenMadonna ordered

Without blushing I hope!

no