Am astonished by amount that loudlass claims monthly - my DH is a higher-rate taxpayer so we stand to lose our only benefit - child benefit - shortly. I also work, and always have done, the second my maternity pay finished, I had no choice. I'd love not to, or to work less, but we couldn't afford for me not to work.
Yet, on the figures that lodlass has posted, our monthly take-home pay, after housing costs have been deducted, is virtually identical, £ for £, to what loudlass receives.
Yetshe doesn't work - an is viewed as 'poor' - whilst I work from home, every nght, long after kids are in bed - and are viwed as 'rich' and not in need of our child benefit.
It's all bollocks - incl loudlass claiming she can't afford a holiday on her meagre benefits. We have a holiday every year - nothing pricey, camping etc . But I guess she must have a pricey smoking and/or drinking habit if she can't afford one at all.
As I said - our incomes match hers more or less exactly - though I work damn hard to earn mine, and appreciate it's harder for her to earn hers. We also have 3 dcs.
If I can afford a holiday, so can she.
Given my taxes pay for benefits, I don't mind her claiming if that is what the state says she is 'entitled to', but I would really, really like her to stop moaning about the fact that some people view those amounts as high.
I'm so, so tired of the hours we have to work - maybe loudlass could try some old-fashioned gratitude that those like me who work every minute of the day are paying for her and the hours she gets to spend with her dcs/posting on mumsnet. 