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to stop using freecycle because of the petty Mods?

32 replies

BloodyElle · 12/09/2010 12:34

In two weeks I have offered over 10 things including a corner suite.

I also asked for a lawnmower or strimmer as my Dad has broke mine Hmm.

I thought I would ask again today and got a snotty mods email stating they would not be posting my ad as I didn't leave a long enough period of time between asking for the same thing and in future I should wait two weeks - fair enough but last time I asked was a fortnight ago Confused.

So my ask was pulled but the woman who is always asking for a flatscreen and Ds games is posted.

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BooBooGlass · 12/09/2010 12:38

YANBU. It's a real shame, but I only ever offer things on freecycle now, I never ask purely because people never offer things anymore. It's a haven for grabby people. One of the ladies I know through other people is on there all the time askign for things for her dd. I helped at an N CT sale a few weeks ago and almost all of the stuff she had asked for she was selling Hmm, added to which she 'volunteered' to help but was there for a grand total of an hour (which happened to include the presale bit for volunteers to get stuff before the doors opened). Double Hmm. It's a useful thing if you have items to get rid of and don't drive, like me, but unfortunately it's ruined by a few idiots (the mods on mine seem a bit too reasonable really, there are people who exculsively ask and never offer)

SrStanislaus · 12/09/2010 12:50

No dont stop using freecycle - its a very useful resource in so many ways. But play them at their game. The mods are-in my experience- just a group of not very technologically savvy people who just happened to be the first on that site to volunteer as Mods.
Play them at their own game and either get yourself a couple of extra Gmail addresses for posting or just post requests using different wording each time. They keep posts for comparison .They do tend to jump on newbies very hard for some unknown reason .Makes me wonder just how many people they put off right at the start.

BAFE · 12/09/2010 13:55

why don't you e-mail the moderators back and tell them that you did leave the required amount of time between e-mail requests?

Maisiethemorningsidecat · 12/09/2010 14:05

I have just had my application to join our local Freecycle rejected and have absolutely no idea why Confused, esp. as I was a member in another area some time ago and came out of that one when we moved. I got a snippy letter saying that the Mods decision was final and I should not contact them as they would not respond.

Very weird...but I now send a lot more to charity shops so it's probably been a good thing. Still intrigued though...

Freecycle can be a strange old place

QueenOfFlamingEverything · 12/09/2010 14:19

Maisie that happened to us when we tried to join our local Freecycle after moving house!

No idea why, the tone of the email was pretty snippy here too Hmm

Maisiethemorningsidecat · 12/09/2010 14:29

It's reassuring to know I'm not the only reject from Freecycle! Did you ever find out why? Perhaps we didn't ask for plasma TVs or cars often enough? Grin

GeekyGirl · 12/09/2010 14:46

I gave up on Freecycle due to the number of threads along the lines of 'I've got 5 children and they need a laptop each to do their homework and I can't help them because I'm struggling with 3 jobs since being widowed etc etc.'

PerpetuallyAnnoyedByHeadlice · 12/09/2010 15:10

give the mods a break! they are unpaid volunteers moderating 100s of posts a day, a large % of which are incorrectly listed!They regularly post about having to remove people from the site because they get very abusive emails from them when they point out that they have done something against the rules of freecycle

Our rule is you cannot repeat an ASK within a month. Some slip through if people are on unmoderated posts, or if they adjust the title slightly

I think its a fab concept and have both given and received useful valuable stuf as well as what some would term worthless stuff

I now ignore the folk who are on every day asking for everything because some of them are very grabby and ungrateful

Maisiethemorningsidecat · 12/09/2010 15:28

If you are a Mod, Perpetually, then can you shed any light on why my (perfectly reasonable, honestly!) request to join was turned down given that I'd be a member of another group previously (and never asked for anything, or donated shoddy goods). Bitter, moi? Grin

EauRouge · 12/09/2010 15:30

Our local freecycle is really grabby now, there are hardly any offers. There used to be a rule that you could only ask for things on Wednesdays but now it's just full of people taking the piss trying to get things for free.

RandyRussian · 12/09/2010 15:37

Freecycle was a brilliant idea but now seems full of people out to grab anything they can sell on Ebay.

AND our mods are s. I requested any old Sky box after our old one gave up the ghost and was told that asking for such 'valuable' items encouraged crime! As if anyone would burgle someone's house for something to give away!!

PerpetuallyAnnoyedByHeadlice · 12/09/2010 16:45

LOL, am not a mod honest!!

PerpetuallyAnnoyedByHeadlice · 12/09/2010 16:47

RR - I think you missed their point re: crime - one of our freecycle group was BURGLED after having given away some quite valuable stuff to someone asking for it - the collector was casing the joint while collecting the stuff - figuring "well if they can afford to be giving away XY and Z what else might they have worth nicking"

annec555 · 12/09/2010 19:17

I am glad I saw this thread. I applied to join Freecycle recently and got an email asking for more details which I provided. I then heard nothing else and my "pending application" status disappeared from Yahoo so I reapplied. My new application crossed over with my rejection email. I put a bit more detail in the new one, including that I am moving and have quite a bit of stuff to give away so I will be interested to see if I get accepted now that I have put that little "enticement" in! I am actually a bit put off as I am not sure exactly what I could possibly have said to lead to being rejected (provided valid postcode within correct area, stated that I am trying to reduce environmental impact by recycling, using cloth nappies etc) - I don't see what makes me rejection-worthy!

DuelingFanjo · 12/09/2010 19:23

I find it odd that people actually notice how many times someone is asking for things! Life is too short. I just browse the emails and move on!

I had a strange email today, from a mod, advertising a place you can use to sell the stuff you really don't want to give away which I thought was odd as it kind of goes against the whole freecycle thing!

Greenshadow · 12/09/2010 19:39

I can't belive that Freecycle is rejecting people!

Having said that, I do realise there are a lot of 'issues' with it and in fact our local Freecycle has collectively left and changed to Freegle.

Those that have been rejected - might be worth investigating FReegle which is exactly the same but isn't controlled by slightly dubious groups in the States.

Flighttattendant · 12/09/2010 19:43

'Play them at their own game and either get yourself a couple of extra Gmail addresses for posting or just post requests using different wording each time. They keep posts for comparison '

What a really weird thing to post! That's totally disingenuous. You can't recommend someone does that, it's wrong.

I have had trouble with very fussy and petty mods in the past and it put me off so I left. I rejoined to offer something last week and the mod I got was fantastic.

It depends who you get.

Maisiethemorningsidecat · 12/09/2010 19:47

Dueling - when someone asks for a car, or a plasma, or a headboard for a king sized bed (must be chocolate brown leather) or a mobile phone (must be a pink flip top one) - you kind of notice, in a sort of Shock way! The others I just deleted though...

annec555 · 12/09/2010 20:03

OK - now I am totally put off the whole thing. My second application, saying that I would have a lot of stuff to give away, got accepted in less than an hour. That was the only difference between the two applications. I know that is the point of Freecycle but surely there shouldn't be different treatment for someone just wanting to join on the basis that it is a useful tool to use when they do have something to give away, and someone saying "I have loads of stuff". AIBU now?!

tethersend · 12/09/2010 20:16

Bloody mods. You should lure them down Brighton seafront and organise the rockers to give them a good going over with a deckchair... Oh. Sorry. I appear to have got confused.

As you were.

MogTheForgetfulCat · 12/09/2010 22:10

Grin @ tethersend

serafinacat · 12/09/2010 23:40

I love freecycle but find the mods v tiresome and jobsworthy...

Rockbird · 12/09/2010 23:59

I was rejected for freecycle as well. I got into the group and my first two posts were offering things, amongst which was a brilliant portable tv. The ads never appeared and when I asked why they said they weren't written in the correct way. So I copied the format of someone else's ad and the second ads were correct and almost identical to the first ones I sent and they were rejected again. Again the ads were 'wrong'. Gave up after that.

Niceguy2 · 13/09/2010 04:08

I used to be a Freecycle mod. It was something I thought I'd be good at. I am technically literate, had time to spare and wanted to do "my bit" so to speak.

One of the biggest problems in my mind is the entire system is based on Yahoo groups which is well...crap. Once you've approved someone to post directly, there's nothing stopping them from posting repeated wants. Yes you can put them back on moderation but its effectively locking the door after then horse has bolted.

When a member posted abusive messages directly onto the group then later directed to myself, I banned her. She joined as someone else. Banned her, joined again. etc. In the end it was easier to keep her on the site and just moderate her posts rather than play cat & mouse.

Also, as a mod I have to say that there are huge variations in how groups are moderated. Some are strict and run by power nazi's, other's were pretty laid back. There is a rulebook and even a UKModsquad which was meant to harmonise this but like most member's, I often wondered how many moderators had read the guidelines. There was no consistency.

For me the few ruined it for the many. Time & time again you had certain individuals who would post wanted's for high value items. I remember seeing posts for Xbox's and Nintendo DS's. The one which took the biscuit though was the lady who wanted a sandpit. Not just any sandpit, she included the page number in the Argos catalogue of the one she wanted.

The final nail in the coffin for me was when the UK "leadership" fell out with the US "leadership" resulting in UK lot deciding to leave and go there own way. Quite why they fell out was beyond me. I thought we were all there to save things from going to landfill. I took the opportunity to resign.

I still think Freecycle is a fantastic idea but it really needs to move with the times.

Maisiethemorningsidecat · 13/09/2010 20:08

So agree Niceguy. It seems the most complicated system (I'd forgetten about yahoo, and having to set up a mail account with them - they don't accept hotmail for some reason) for something that is essentially about recycling and reducing landfill. Why does it need to be so difficult? Confused