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to think that some things should really be fucking banned in this country?

75 replies

MummikinsOopNorth · 08/09/2010 16:02

I'll start with dirty bastards sat opposite me in libraries or behind me on buses chewing their gum so bastarding loud that I can hear every squelch. Eurgh.

People playing music without earphones on public transport

People playing music through earphones on public transport so loud that I can hear. It no longer becomes a personal ipod or mp3 player because my ears can hear the damn tuneless drones of the tasteless music.

Spitting. Just eurgh.

OP posts:
Hai1988 · 08/09/2010 16:03

Shock bad day?

ttalloo · 08/09/2010 16:04

YANBU

I wish I had the guts to cut their earphones off.

Littlepurpleprincess · 08/09/2010 16:07

Blush sorry, but I'm the one with the earphones on the bus. I just can't help but put them in, LOUDLY, it's not the same if they're not loud. I can't help it. It's an addiction. I don't do it to annoy, honest.

My music taste, is great tho, so you won't mind. Wink

catinthehat2 · 08/09/2010 16:12

Purple -

seriously, you are going to knacker your hearing, not now but for when you are middle aged I bet you're young Sad

Littlepurpleprincess · 08/09/2010 16:16

I'm young, and it's already knackered. Look, I don't smoke, I hardly drink, I'm an all round good girl, let me have one vice without being told how bad it is for me. Please don't be sad. My vice doesn't hurt others the way smoking does.

bigchris · 08/09/2010 16:18

Ah the perils of public transport and the public library sitting with the hoy polloy Grin

PaulineCampbellJones · 08/09/2010 16:19

Sting should be banned. With his lute. Put in a prison cell and made to think how annoying he is.
Squelchy kisses, clacking sweets and snuffling.

NestaFiesta · 08/09/2010 16:19

Sorry Purple, but the sound of an ipod/MP3 from the back of a bus when I am in the front gets under my skin the way nails down a blackboard gets under other people's skin. Turn them down- its not for long!

dustycups · 08/09/2010 16:22

i with purple im afraid, loud music is the only way, and a great way to block out the world
i am also one who plays fantastic loudly through my headphones, sorry!

lamplighter · 08/09/2010 16:23

The coolest woman I ever saw was back in the 80's when Walkman were all the rage. There was a kid on a train with the bloody thing hissing away.

This lady (who was in her fifties) indicated several times for him to turn it down and he ignored her. She reached into her handbag, pulled out a small pair of scissors and cut the wire.

Girl Power! The rest of the carriage were Shock. The kid just sat there looking stunned

catinthehat2 · 08/09/2010 16:27

(Purply, honestly I'm the first to say " it's a free country, bog off" , but IME it's no fun being annoyingly cloth eared, particularly if music is so important to you. I will definitely keep my nose out as I do agree it is NONE of my business Smile )

VivClicquot · 08/09/2010 16:27

If I were Prime Minister, my first act would be to ban chewing gum. I'd turn us into Singapore on the spot.

It stinks, creates a mess and makes people look like cattle chewing cud. Hateful stuff.

Littlepurpleprincess · 08/09/2010 16:29

Now, i'm not a total bitch, if someone asked nicley if I would turn it down because they can hear it, well i'm not going to say no am I? Try saying PLEASE.

ttalloo · 08/09/2010 16:36

purple, dustycups, why should an entire bus or train carriage full of people have to listen to your choice of music, whether tasteful or otherwise? It's inconsiderate and rude and makes commuting even more stressful than it need be.

The fact that you know you do it, and are just waiting for someone to pluck up the courage to ask you nicely, just makes it worse!

dustycups · 08/09/2010 16:42

actually i must say i dont really go on buses or trains very much with headphones on so i only bug the people that walk past me in the street!

Mowiol · 08/09/2010 16:43

The wearing of vast quantities of perfume/aftershave/body spray should also be banned- especially if it's cheap crap.
And I mean vast quantities, as if someone has bathed in it.

And muzak played over the phone whilst waiting for someone to answer - don't mind a bit of classical but not "lift muzak" for goodness sake.

The bossy voice at the self-service checkout.

vanillacupcakes · 08/09/2010 16:44

this is the kind of stuff that makes me paranoid that people can hear me when i play my iphone! however i do always make sure to take out my headphones and hold them in front of me to see if i can hear the music coming out... also no one has ever complained thus far.

but, i have sat next to a lot of people who play there music so ridiculously loud that they must KNOW everyone within a 5m radius can hear.

so YANBU on any accounts.

Littlepurpleprincess · 08/09/2010 16:49

But why is it rude or annoying to make a little noise, in the middle of the day, outside, in a busy town, that's full of noise anyway? People are so intolerant of each other.

I wouldn't dream of listening to it on the quiet carriage of a train.

Are we all supposed to go around in absolute silence now? Just incase in bugging you? Hmm

If I am in a public place, I expect to see and hear other members of the public.

AbsofCroissant · 08/09/2010 16:56

I agree with the playing music out loud - it's normally annoying teenagers who do it, trying to show off and be all "i'm so awesome".

I kind of agree with not listening to music with earphones so loudly that everyone else can hear. Even though you may think you have fabulous taste in music, other people may not agree. If you really want to check, post it on MN to see what the response is. It is something that people can turn down, and be aware of. It's about being considerate of others.

Ban spitting. And if people spit on the street, make them lick it up

AbsofCroissant · 08/09/2010 16:57

Sometimes it is not just "a little noise". Sometimes it's loud enough (even through headphones) for people at the other end of a tube carriage to hear (I'm obviously not specifically referring to you, but have had this on public transport many many timeS).

dustycups · 08/09/2010 17:00

{holds hands with purple as we r kicked out the country along with the spitters}

jumpingjackhash · 08/09/2010 17:07

yy on the chewing gum, can we also throw in people crunching food (the person who sits next to me a work spends all day every day crunching polo mints... grrr).

Also people who 'taste' food on cookery shows and make a big deal of it. Makes me want to retch.

I'm not too fussed over leaking headphnes - can't me more annoying than listening to half a conversation as someone jabbers away on their mobile on a bus.

Littlepurpleprincess · 08/09/2010 17:09

okay, okay.

BUT then can I say, can we please ban any kind of music being played in public? Because I don't like most of the crap played on the radio. I don't like anyone that stands in the street in town singing covers/ or playing an instrument. I don't like it in shops, I don't like in cafes.

IT BUGS ME.

I listen to my Ipod to drown this crap out.

ttalloo · 08/09/2010 17:19

I'm quite militant, as you might have gathered, about people listening to loud music on their earphones in confined spaces like buses or trains, but in the street, where I can escape it, it doesn't bother me, and if that's where dustycups and purple do their loud listening that's fine by me. It's just when I'm trapped and forced to listen to someone's tinny tunes.

That's when I get the urge to commit acts of sabotage...!

AbsofCroissant · 08/09/2010 17:24

"BUT then can I say, can we please ban any kind of music being played in public? Because I don't like most of the crap played on the radio. I don't like anyone that stands in the street in town singing covers/ or playing an instrument. I don't like it in shops, I don't like in cafes"
This is presumably in shops, cafes etc. and out and about in public, not on public transport. If you don't like the music in a shop, fine, put headphones on loudly or leave, but on a tube ... very very rarely would there be someone singing out loud (in many years of almost daily public transport taking, I have had this only a handful of times, and on one ocassion the person doing it was clearly on drugs) and in my experience, the only people making annoying noises (apart from annoying chatty people) are those playing headphones loudly/playing their MP3 using speakers.