AIBU to think men could be a bit more original when it comes to fabcying random women?

[greythorne]

Just feeling disappointed with DH and our friend (god-father to our DD).

We recently went out for dinner in a lovely restaurant on the beach, beautiful sunset, the DCs were playing well together on the sand as we sipped our drinks.

Next thing, the waitress came to out table to take our order. She looked like a comic book "sexually attractive woman"...that is to say, very big breasts, very tight vest tee shirt, slim build, tight leggings (complete with camel's toe crotch thingy). To me, she looked very unattractive as she looked.....ahem, cheap, unstylish, obvious. She was not pretty, but she had all the obvious sexual cues.

You know what's coming....DH and his pal were like giggling school boys making all sorts of stupid innuendo about her physique (tits, specifically) and her clothes (all tight, all skimpy).

AIBU to think men are pathetically obvious when it comes to what turns them on?

Conversely, I am very disappointed when women leer over obvious men. I have a barrister friend, probably the most intelligent of my friends. She letches over perma-tanned muscle men with gelled hair. She loves them. I am permanently confused by it.

Oh god cupcakes DH fancies Letitia Dean (ex-eastender) - hope that doesn't reflect on me!!

Not at all! I'm just really desperately trying to suggest that DH's preference for sultry/ very attractive women is somehow a reflection on me. (she says, posting on MN , hair scraped back, pyjamas on, wino glow about face)

Of course it does Maybe the wino glow makes you look more exotic

Yeah, that overtly attractive look, how pitiful...much better to have to look for something to attract one...