I would also love to know which charity it is that boosts my pension fund - and there was I thinking it was my own contributions that did that! 
Too right I joined the Army by choice - and its not a decision I've ever regretted, BUT, I dont consider myself a Hero, I dont expect handouts, I dont expect the 'taxpayer' to fund my existence and I dont expect people to update their FB with inane 'support our troops' messages.
I also dont expect to be slagged off, solely for being a soldier, doing my duty as I promised to do, and working to earn a wage.
My colleagues and I did not START any wars, did not CAUSE any conflicts - just went there when we were told to, and did what our Commanders expected of us. We dont need to be trotted out as Heroes, but a little respect as people, as human beings in impossible situations would be appreciated.
Again - I dont support that status, it's blatently racist and fundamentally incorrect, but slagging off soldiers, as if they were the ones that wrote it/posted it is bloody unfair.
It's a crappy status, replace it with the DEC one, and forget the friends that think it is acceptable.