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is it neglectful to leave LO in the cot chatting?

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Odysseus · 13/08/2010 09:52

I have been reliably informed that if LO is awake and playing in his cot, then I don't necessarily always have to go fish him out and entertain him. In fact it is good for him to have some alone time, to process all the info he sees/learns.

This comes from my parents who told me at 3 weeks to leave DS to cry because actually they have to have a good holler to open up all the alveoli in the lungs and to allow them to function properly Hmm

So should I be playing with him all the time and not leaving him alone for 20 mins at a time say, or is this ok?!

DISCLAIMER - I am well aware that this is no doubt a ridiculous question and that this is propably bloomin obvious to a well-seasoned Mother. But I'm a relative newbie!

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BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 13/08/2010 15:52

I think it develops the imagination. I watch DD (almost 9mo) chatting to her stuffed camel and imagine her telling it all sorts of magical tales...

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