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To think there is nothing wrong with spitting?

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thefirstmrsDeVere · 09/08/2010 18:41

Ha Ha got you!

Bet you thought this was about PFB who can do no wrong Grin

Actually it is about BFB - mine. My beautiful, wonderful DD who was my first and terribly, dreadfully precious.

She is gone. Luekemia took her from me.

Its now really easy to register to be a Bone Marrow Donor. You can send for a kit and spit in it and send it back.

www.anthonynolan.org/spit

I dont work for them. I just dont want anyone else to lose their child.

She is on my profile if you want to see just what I lost.

Thank you.

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sarah293 · 09/08/2010 18:46

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snowmash · 09/08/2010 18:49

That's so great that you don't have to make time to have blood taken any more!

I am sorry for your loss :(

One thing I would say is that if you may fit any of these criteria, ring them and check before asking for a pack.

violethill · 09/08/2010 18:49

Thank you for flagging this up.

And the photo is gorgeous.

Lulumaam · 09/08/2010 18:50

I can't because i've got crohn's disease, i'm afraid ! but i would if i could

shockers · 09/08/2010 18:52

I've just tried but I'm not eligible as I'm over 40. I hope you get some youngsters on here!

MrsReality · 09/08/2010 18:53

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violethill · 09/08/2010 18:55

Bugger that's me and dd out then.

Still - hopefully many eligible people will see this.

thefirstmrsDeVere · 09/08/2010 18:57

Thank you everyone.

There are so many people who cant do it (and give blood). Dont feel bad if you cant. Sad

I keep going on and off it due to having babies all the time Grin

For all us older mums/aunties etc we can do our bit by pestering our teenage DS/DD/DNs and all their mates.

They are particularly keen on young men I believe (arent we all).

I feel so fecking impotent. I could save her. I try and encourage others to join up to things like this.

I have been reduced to a big sobbing heap by people I have never met telling me they became blood donors/signed on the BM register because of my darling girl.

Bumpity bumpity BUMP x

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thefirstmrsDeVere · 09/08/2010 19:03

Thats right, set me off again mrs Grin

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atswimtwolengths · 09/08/2010 19:03

What a lovely, lovely girl. I'm so sorry.

Unfortunately I don't fit the criteria (age and arthritis) but I'm a teacher in a sixth form and will arrange for one of the volunteers to come in to talk to our students - I'm sure one of us at work will be able to get involved in working as a volunteer, too.

warthog · 09/08/2010 19:07

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful dd.

i would like to find out more about what donating bone marrow involves. there doesn't seem to be much info about it on that site.

anyone here done it?

pigletmania · 09/08/2010 19:07

I am really Sad for you, will register its so easy, I am on the organ doner register too btw.

pigletmania · 09/08/2010 19:08

BTW your dd was so beautiful Smile

OrmRenewed · 09/08/2010 19:08

Ah bless her, she is beautiful.

I will do so. We're on the point of moving so no point in giving anyone our address atm.

I am so sorry for your loss mrsd Sad

TotorosOcarina · 09/08/2010 19:11

Hi MrsDeVere, I have read many of your posts and always found your strength amazing.

I have just requested a pack to join the register, thanks to you, and your beautiful DD :)

thefirstmrsDeVere · 09/08/2010 19:13

Thanks again. Sincerely for everything you have done, will do or even think about doing.

Nothing makes it better but some things can help ease the pain just a little.

The thought of it all being a waste is too much to bear.

I am off to feed the mob.

I will be back.

I will get some info for you warthog

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isthatporridgeinyourhair · 09/08/2010 19:13

Done - I just squeaked in on the age limit Blush.

Beautiful DD.xx

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 09/08/2010 19:24

I signed up last month after lisad123 posted about her DH, and did my spitting this week -- it really is very simple.

Warthog -- site says (here)

Every day, our Search Team spend hours searching our register. They are looking for matches for patients in desperate need of a donation of stem cells. One day you might be that match.

If this happens we?ll get in touch to ask you to give more blood samples to be sure that this is the case. If you are a match then get ready ? you?re about to do something amazing and potentially save a life. Thousands of people on our register have gone on to become donors, offering hope and life to patients throughout the world.

What happens if you?re a match?
Before you donate you?ll be given a medical examination to ensure you?re fit enough to proceed. We?ll take further blood samples to assess your health and make sure no infection could be passed from you to the patient.

Practicalities
All stem cell donations take place at a specialist centre in London, and we make all the arrangements for you. You?ll have a choice of two methods although you should be willing to donate using either.

Peripheral blood stem cell collection ? donating through a vein in your arm

What happens?
A nurse will come to your home or office to give you injections over three days. These injections help your body produce and release stem cells into your blood. You?ll then come to a hospital in London to make the donation but you won?t need an overnight hospital stay or a general anaesthetic. Your blood is taken through a tiny tube in your arm, and the cells are donated by passing the blood through a machine. Side effects can include flu-like symptoms and aching but they?re usually mild and last just a couple of days.

Bone marrow donation ? donating stem cells taken from bone marrow in the pelvis

What happens?
You?ll come to a hospital in London where you?ll spend two nights. You?ll be given a general anaesthetic and doctors will take some of your bone marrow from your pelvis using a needle and syringe. You?ll probably
experience tiredness and a little bruising afterwards but this generally passes after about a week.

How will you feel afterwards?
Our donors often tell us that the side effects last a few days, but the pride at having helped save a life stays with them forever. We will reimburse all reasonable out-of-pocket expenses including paying for and arranging all travel and accommodation requirements.

LucyLouLou · 09/08/2010 19:26

Oh your daughter was a stunner wasn't she? Such a pretty girl!

I'm currently pregnant so can't register at the moment, but I will pass the link along to family and friends :).

lollymad · 09/08/2010 19:31

Just had a look at the beautiful photos on your profile - what a gorgeous smile.

I have also requested a pack to join the register.

My thoughts are with you.

ProfessorLaytonIsMyLoveSlave · 09/08/2010 19:34

You can register now, LucyLouLou (I know 'cos I've just done it, and made sure they knew I was pregnant in the "any other medical info" box, and they still approved me and sent me the spit kit). You can't actually donate while pregnant, but they can collect your saliva sample and tissue type you to go on the register.

QueenofDreams · 09/08/2010 19:34

Your daughter looked gorgeous!

How do I find out if my local hospital is involved in the umbilical cord donation thing? Am pg with DC2 so could donate the umbilical cord if they do it in my area?

LucyLouLou · 09/08/2010 19:39

Oh awesome thank you! I assumed I wouldn't be able to, but I will request it. Thanks so much, I would love to be able to help someone :).